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Hi Mr. Nanuck, was just wondering... you mentioned you sometimes do events in Asia. Do you still? Do you ever come to China? if yes, were in China? How hard is it to keep anonymity? I ask not because of some shame issue but because i have lost jobs before when it came out i was submissive - i have high-power jobs usually and people can be moronic and conservative about such things. I found my daddy-dom veeeeery early on and have been married happily for 17 years. However this also means with above mentioned, that i hardly ever come into contact with our "community" and i feel extremely cut off having to wear dom mask during the day and only having my daddy and a few online friends to be honest to in my private time. I too am Canadian so i thought to ask if ... well is it even possible to have both? *Do* you still have events in Asia? when is the next one? I want to come even if i have to wear a burlap sack on my head.
Desperately,
-Pixie

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pixie:

Well dear, currently I am living in Singapore. I have not been to China this year and so far nothing is on the horizon for China, sorry.  By the middle of the year I will likely be repatriating back to Canada.  I do understand the issue with people not being able to separate the work and private lives or somehow thing what we do reflect badly on them... as you said idiots. I am glad you found your daddy/dom and have been happy for so long. If you are in S'pore before the Summer we can go to events here without the bag on your head... unless of course you would like the humiliation.

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Aramock Nanuck

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I will answer any questions concern the lifestyle and may annoy a few because I do dive into the history and psychology of this lifestyle in many of my answers. I have a partner a Femdom Mistress who shares my experiences and assets, as I hers. Also belonging to a couple groups in Europa and Asia. Traveling frequently between the continents. We tend to share information and discuss many of the topics frequently. I will focus on the core items around, training and relationship management for those that are interested.

Experience

I have been involved in the lifestyle since being introduced to it by my father at the age of 13. He was a master in the 50's to 80's but predated the popularity of Gor, and was Pharaonic in nature. I owned my own slaves since my early 20's. I have usually been part of a poly household. For about 6 years three of us ran a BDSM club in Prague until it was "acquired" by the Russian "businessmen". I do not hold any moral taboos about this lifestyle and at one time or another have experience or seen everything imaginable. It is in this absence of mrals that principles, protocols and personal honour must determine the worth of an individual. It is their clear and unwavering adherence to these ethics that make for stauncher things than those which some observance by mere lip service to common morals. When men/women of honour lead, then they do so without malice, without negativity and without thought of personal gain. It only then that they truly attain Dominon over others. Therefore in mastery comes a devotion to duty, and the existence, needs and desires of others that exceeds the submission mere slaves give to the Dominant. A Dominant one must lead, govern, educate and enrich the lives of subjects beign ruled... for otherwise they are but a sycophant and a tyrant. Hedonism and narcissism plays no part in this, it is an apparition that forms from acts done at much higher levels of meaning that mere morally bound persons can not see.

Organizations
I belong to a number of local clubs, and a loose association (not formal) of about 25 masters and mistresses here in Western Europe and Asia who share experiences, training and some exchange trade assets.

Publications
I have not published on BDSM under my name, but contribute frequently to forums. I am consolidating my writings slowly on DarkCastleSin.org for any that are interested in reading.

Education/Credentials
Not relevant although I do have a DCS and DT but I am not Christian so have no moral dilemmas with this lifestyle.

Awards and Honors
Not applicable here, come on in our lifestyle these do not exist but should. When was the last time we had public awards for Worlds Darkest Sadist, World's Most Gifted Shibaru Artist, Worlds Most Diligent Mentor, World's Most Gifted Enthusiast,

Past/Present Clients
Not relevant; private consults remain so.

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