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i need some ideas of what to do to my wife is my sub   she loves anal but has hard time to swallow but is willing to do anything

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jeff.

Train her to swallow. There are many ways to do this. One method, you can put a flavored lubricant on your penis before you allow her to suck on it. This may make the resulting ejaculate easier to swallow. Other ways to ease into this may be to "reward" her with swallowing, so she has a positive feeling associated with this action - or not letting the ejaculate into her mouth until she achieves a goal. Unless your wife is a coprophage, do not put your penis in her mouth after it has been in her anus. This can transmit things that she would not be prepared for, as a non-paraphilic submissive.

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I am open and willing to answer any questions involving BDSM that do not specifically concern illegal acts involving children or non-consensual assault against an unwilling party.

Experience

I have had BDSM experience in a professional capacity since 2005. As far as personal, non-professional experience, I have always taken the lead in relationships, friendships, and other situational interactions. I prefer to "wear the pants" so to speak. However, this is not to say I wear the physical pants: I am mostly seen wearing skirts.

Organizations
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Publications
Excitedly, this will be my first foray into professional writing about BDSM, however my vanilla writings have appeared in several publications online. I am the former main web editor of a very popular DIY website, writing articles about electronics, repurposing, and sustainability.

Education/Credentials
I have participated in many educational workshops held by Pro-Dommes. I have also hosted a few workshops involving BDSM issues. I have done extensive research on D/s power dynamics and BDSM. As far as education, however, professional sessions and interactions with clients have provided most of my experience.

Past/Present Clients
I have a multitude of both. I specialize in clients with physical handicaps, rare kinks, edge play, LGBT lifestyles, and other underrepresented or marginalized groups.

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