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Hi I was wondering sense I like daddy bdsm is it more rare or coman for them to have only one sub/baby girl.also is it hard to find a good daddy dom that will except that you have a rule where you don't want them to sleep or have other subs/baby girls

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Actually there are way more subs and girls out there than there are Doms. Daddies are a little more common, but still outnumbered by baby girls. So unlike the vanilla world, in the BDSM world the Dom/Top/Daddy is the prize. However, that doesn't me an at all that a relationship between a Daddy and his girl should not be monogamous. It can be, or it can not be. It just has nothing to do with the numbers and everything to do with the specific dynamic of each couple. What you both decide is the rule. However, don't leave it to "presupposed" or expected rules. When things are not talked about clearly things tend to not go well. And finally, study the matter or monogamy quite well before you try to insist in it, and I say that to both Doms and subs. Monogamy is not the right way for everyone.

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I can answer questions about techniques in BDSM, especially about bondage. I also have plenty of experience in the psychological aspects of it, dominance, mind control techniques, and erotic hypnosis.

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About 14 years experience as a bondage Dom, kinkster, and swinger.

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I write often for http://KhaosTheory.com and published a book about lifestyle design and sexual dominance.

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I have been studying psychology, neurosciences, and the applied arts of BDSM for these 14 years I have been in it. Most of it is of very practical application and tested in the field. There are no diplomas on the wall, but consequently I am not bound by the limits and constraints of any medical or educational occupation.

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