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My sub of 3 years needs a simple surgery done. The only issue is she freaks out at the mention of surgery. We first got together she was living with me and 17, I was over her medical decisions. Now she is 19 and will continue to be in allot of pain if she does get this done. I have tried everything i know. She is one you have to be stern with. Any possible suggestions?

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Yes, actually...

The that she undergoes the surgery is another example of her service to you.

In my relationship with my Owner (Jen) we have three rules.

Rule 1: Master is right
Rule 2: If the boy believes that Master is making a poor decision because of a medical issue or believes that Master has made an incorrect decision concerning a medical issue, boy has specific authority to invoke Rule 2 and Master will comply.
Rule 3: See Rule 1

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Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)

Expertise

Anything related to BDSM or Master/slave relationships or activities.

Experience

See: www.KinkMastery.com I live 24/7 Master/slave lifestyle and have since 2002 both as Master and slave. My Owner and I present and do "weekend intensives" internationally and at BDSM conferences practically every month.

Organizations
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) National Leather Association - International (NLA-I) National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)

Publications
+++ BDSM Mastery—Basics: your guide to play, parties, and scene protocols. +++ BDSM Mastery—Relationships: a guide for creating mindful relationships for Dominants and submissives +++ Master/slave Mastery: Updated handbook of concepts, approaches, and practices +++ Master/slave Mastery--Advanced: Refining the fire; ideas that matter +++ Master/slave Mastery--Protocols: Focusing the intent of your relationship +++ Is THAT What They Meant? A book of practical communication insights

Education/Credentials
PhD, Urban Education Policy Studies with a minor in criminology, U of Wisconsin, Madison. EdM, Boston University with specialty in urban education Presented 80+ BDSM weekend conferences worldwide since 2007.

Awards and Honors
Pantheon of Leather Community Choice - Man, 2008

Past/Present Clients
Not applicable.

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