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my wife likes anal want to tie her face down agaim what else can i do to her anally

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Hi, Jeff -- thanks for writing.

I'm afraid you'll have to find a different expert. I don't do anal. On Amazon, I found this book for you: Anal Sex Basics: The Beginner's Guide to Maximizing Anal Pleasure for Every Body

So far as tying her down, you've again got the wrong "expert." I just don't do rope at all. I'd send you to an Amazon search for rope bondage.  Jay Wiseman, Midori, and Lee Harrington  come to mind as national rope bondage presenters with books.  Rope is a sub-culture within BDSM: you'll really have to join a local BDSM club in your city and get hands-on training.  If you will join www.Fetlife.com (it's free) and do a search for the name of your city, you'll find a club.

Hope this helps and I'm sorry that I don't have more specialized answers.

Bob

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Robert Rubel (Dr. Bob)

Expertise

Anything related to BDSM or Master/slave relationships or activities.

Experience

See: www.KinkMastery.com I live 24/7 Master/slave lifestyle and have since 2002 both as Master and slave. My Owner and I present and do "weekend intensives" internationally and at BDSM conferences practically every month.

Organizations
Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) National Leather Association - International (NLA-I) National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)

Publications
+++ BDSM Mastery—Basics: your guide to play, parties, and scene protocols. +++ BDSM Mastery—Relationships: a guide for creating mindful relationships for Dominants and submissives +++ Master/slave Mastery: Updated handbook of concepts, approaches, and practices +++ Master/slave Mastery--Advanced: Refining the fire; ideas that matter +++ Master/slave Mastery--Protocols: Focusing the intent of your relationship +++ Is THAT What They Meant? A book of practical communication insights

Education/Credentials
PhD, Urban Education Policy Studies with a minor in criminology, U of Wisconsin, Madison. EdM, Boston University with specialty in urban education Presented 80+ BDSM weekend conferences worldwide since 2007.

Awards and Honors
Pantheon of Leather Community Choice - Man, 2008

Past/Present Clients
Not applicable.

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