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Hello,
I have been a slave for about 1 year now with my current master. I have had Anorexia for 3 years. My master knew this when he collared me. Recently, my eating issues have gotten worse and my Master has begun demanding I eat. He took me to a restaurant and I cryed and begged him not to make me eat. So much so that I received the most painful spanking of my life.my question is, have you heard of anyone utilizing the Master/slave relationship to treat mental illness? I want to try my Master so badly. I just need to know if it is possible that punishment could help me. Thanks for your time.

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jazz

Anorexia is a relatively complex situation. It is largely wrapped up in their poor image and sense of a lack of self worth. It is one of the mental health issues which is most self destructive and not easily treated. Also the application of violence is not practical to the solution.  Now the reason you sought a role of slave has nothing to do with Anorexia but a continuation of your view of your own worth. Can it help, it is entirely dependent on the relationship you have with your dominant and the forethought (intelligence) your dom applies. At best there is a 50/50 chance it will help or radically worsen your situation.  In the past I have owned anorexics, and managed the relationship well. But publicly humiliation and forced feeding never helped. What did help is an intelligent approach to an extremely low carb diets. Another thing is that most anorexics prefer a non-sexual relationship as they view this as a violation.  It takes a lot of energy and effort, if your dom is NOT willing to give that then you need another. If he is then work with him on it.

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I will answer any questions concern the lifestyle and may annoy a few because I do dive into the history and psychology of this lifestyle in many of my answers. I have a partner a Femdom Mistress who shares my experiences and assets, as I hers. Also belonging to a couple groups in Europa and Asia. Traveling frequently between the continents. We tend to share information and discuss many of the topics frequently. I will focus on the core items around, training and relationship management for those that are interested.

Experience

I have been involved in the lifestyle since being introduced to it by my father at the age of 13. He was a master in the 50's to 80's but predated the popularity of Gor, and was Pharaonic in nature. I owned my own slaves since my early 20's. I have usually been part of a poly household. For about 6 years three of us ran a BDSM club in Prague until it was "acquired" by the Russian "businessmen". I do not hold any moral taboos about this lifestyle and at one time or another have experience or seen everything imaginable. It is in this absence of mrals that principles, protocols and personal honour must determine the worth of an individual. It is their clear and unwavering adherence to these ethics that make for stauncher things than those which some observance by mere lip service to common morals. When men/women of honour lead, then they do so without malice, without negativity and without thought of personal gain. It only then that they truly attain Dominon over others. Therefore in mastery comes a devotion to duty, and the existence, needs and desires of others that exceeds the submission mere slaves give to the Dominant. A Dominant one must lead, govern, educate and enrich the lives of subjects beign ruled... for otherwise they are but a sycophant and a tyrant. Hedonism and narcissism plays no part in this, it is an apparition that forms from acts done at much higher levels of meaning that mere morally bound persons can not see.

Organizations
I belong to a number of local clubs, and a loose association (not formal) of about 25 masters and mistresses here in Western Europe and Asia who share experiences, training and some exchange trade assets.

Publications
I have not published on BDSM under my name, but contribute frequently to forums. I am consolidating my writings slowly on DarkCastleSin.org for any that are interested in reading.

Education/Credentials
Not relevant although I do have a DCS and DT but I am not Christian so have no moral dilemmas with this lifestyle.

Awards and Honors
Not applicable here, come on in our lifestyle these do not exist but should. When was the last time we had public awards for Worlds Darkest Sadist, World's Most Gifted Shibaru Artist, Worlds Most Diligent Mentor, World's Most Gifted Enthusiast,

Past/Present Clients
Not relevant; private consults remain so.

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