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Me and my master have recently entered a relationship, he understands that I'm not comfortable showing my face or anything personal and he is fine with that but we are an online couple. Is there any advice you can give me and my master? I'm living at home yet so I can't go out and buy toys but me and him do trust and discuss things. I'd appreciate any help or advice recived.

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Cassie,

I would suggest you look into buying online so you can get it sent to your house.. Alot of places like Ebay and such come in Non adult wrapping, and you do not know what is in the package.. So you will be able to get *toys* and such from there.

As for idea's I would suggest you both Sign up for Fetlife.com and join some of the online groups who will be able to help you more so with how to do a online relationship.. I know some online even though they do not do faces still use Skype just not above the neck..

You can also use a few programs, like Second life, and IMVU.com allow you to do the whole *cyber* which is not just limited to vanilla chat.. Both have BDSM rooms where you can explore your online relationship as close as you can and still not be on Camera..

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Victorian Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Web pages and site for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either D/s or Mistress/slave, or simply learning more in order to help others. I am always reading, either on the net or books.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment. I just moved to Indina with in the last year. I can be found on Fetlife.com as LadyAryana. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me. Slowing I am returning to being active in the community here in Indiana. In the past I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 20+ yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I am semi active in Indiana since moving here, I attend munches and demo's / play parties GRALE, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and and Gorean, I understand that training varies in each relationship so you adjust to what it is you do for the relationship you are in. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

Past/Present Clients
Master, slave, submissive, Tops, and Bottoms. Along with those who simply wanted to learn how to be kinky in the bedroom

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