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Hey I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm looking for a master to dominate me. I am very attractive but it is difficult to find a good site where I can find a Dom that I like.  What do you recommend that I do?

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Seek online for clubs, websites, such as Fetlife.com. Looking for local munches, where you meet other kinky people in a safe, public setting is usually best for actually meeting someone, because you can get to know the people, ask questions, and go from there. Your first play, or scene should be at a public dungeon or event. You learn a lot at events, and can either watch, and learn, or participate.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon. Founder of Southern Indiana Consensual Kink (S.I.C.K.)

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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