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Humble Greetings Lady Aryana

I am 32 years old male with a 31 year old Wife. I am submissive in nature and have an orientation to be a slave since I am into this lifestyle. I am desperately eager to introduce femdom to my wife. My general perception for her sexually was that she's vanilla, but lately a week ago i asked her to rest her feet on my lap and after few minutes out of curiosity I hold her feet in my hand and started sucking her toes, licking her feet, ankles, heel and toes (I have a strong foot fetish).  

She didn't react awkwardly rather it teased her, that encouraged me to continue with more passion. It continued next day also. Her acceptance to have her feet kissed and worshiped by me made me propose her to worship her feet daily as a ritual every morning and evening before going to sleep.

She said 'Ok' gracefully. Next morning I continued while she enjoyed texting. Well does that implies She have a dominant personality?

Now my question is to how to take it further. Shall I continue this for few other days or a month or shall I rather share with her images of feet worship and shoe worship and/or introduce her to to fetlife to broaden her knowledge for BDSM?

Please enlighten me how to proceed in making of my Femdom Wife?

Regards

Ricky

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Ricky,,

I Would suggest buying the books below for your wife and ask her to read them. Once she understands what she could have I am sure she would love being pampered and having things done her way. What women wouldnt?


The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance

The Art Of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women

As for implying she is Dom cause she allowed you to massage her feet while she txted, no this doesnt mean she is.

You should do other things for her, clean house, wash the laundry, get her off *and you do not release* Simply make it all about her, and the more she sees how much you wish to serve she should be willing to become your Mistress.. Although the books will help her understand more about what it means to be in control of you and help her decide if it is something she wishes.

Good Luck

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Victorian Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Web pages and site for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either D/s or Mistress/slave, or simply learning more in order to help others. I am always reading, either on the net or books.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment. I just moved to Indina with in the last year. I can be found on Fetlife.com as LadyAryana. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me. Slowing I am returning to being active in the community here in Indiana. In the past I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 20+ yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I am semi active in Indiana since moving here, I attend munches and demo's / play parties GRALE, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and and Gorean, I understand that training varies in each relationship so you adjust to what it is you do for the relationship you are in. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

Past/Present Clients
Master, slave, submissive, Tops, and Bottoms. Along with those who simply wanted to learn how to be kinky in the bedroom

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