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I want something to play with! My boyfriend isn't very interested in sex - I assume we've just been together for so long that he's bored, although he claims he's lost his libido at 25 - but I'm 18 and I'm fully loaded and prepared for attack, haha, plus I really want to get into some erotica, even if it is just me having all the fun. 0;)

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So he's 25 or older, you're 18, and you've been together so long that it's possible he might be bored. It sounds like you were underage and he was an adult when this relationship started. If this relationship were three years old, that would make him a 22 year old guy trolling for 15 year olds. Stepping out of the bounds of your question, maybe you should consider that you got into this relationship pretty early in your life and if it's feeling constrictive at 18, its probably not going to get better. That's setting aside the fact that the little information you provide makes your boyfriend look pretty creepy.
 By "I want something to play with!", do you mean you're looking for a sex toy. From what little I have to go on, and the assumption that you are a woman, which your letter doesn't make explicit, I'd go with the Hitachi magic wand with attachments and a rabbit vibrator. For one of the most incredible magic wand deals online, check this out: http://www.healthyandactive.com/hitachi-magic-wand-massager.html
For one of the best deals on a rabbit vibrator go here: http://www.healthyandactive.com/jack-rabbit-vibrator.html
 As for erotica, I'm going to suggest www.LittleMutt.com. They run a pretty classy operation.
 I hope that helps.

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