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We have been wanting to do a Breaking scene, I’m not into corporal but it’s not a limit.  My domme and I are researching scene ideas and haven’t had much success.  Background I’m a Switch, starting a 90 day slave contract.  Very fit, healthy, prior service (POW training)…
Any help in the direction of breaking, ego removal, submission and slave training would be greatly appreciated.  Thanks, Jeeves


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Sensory deprivation is the first thing that comes to mind, along with a submission scene, wherein you are tied to the bed, blindfolded, gagged, then beaten until you submit. Your Domme will know if the submission is truthful or not, and if it isn't, the beating will continue until such time as She is satisfied that your submission is from the heart.

This should be done right after the sensory deprivation, without any break in between. This means that you will be led, still blindfolded, gagged, ears plugged, and a substance like Vicks vaporub applied to your nose to cancel out any sense of smell.

You should be given a sign that you can use while gagged, so that your Domme will know that you have indeed given in to Her will. The beating will be harsh, and the whips, canes, floggers and paddles will be constantly changed to avoid you getting used to any one of them. The timing will NOT be steady, but will leave you guessing as to when the next blow will fall, and where.

The sensory deprivation should be done throughout a three day period, to let it sink in deep. Your hands will be fastened behind your back, and you will depend on your Domme for everything, including eating. You should be fed from Her hand, to emphasise the fact that you depend upon Her for even the food and water you receive.

At any time during this three day period, you may be struck, whipped, flogged or beaten for as long as your Domme sees fit. It could be one blow, or many, as She wishes, and it need not have any reason to happen.

When not actively being beaten, or fed or what have you, you should be tied down, possibly in what is called "Close Chains", wherein your body is tied into a small package, so to speak, and kept in a room off to yourself. The lights may either be left on 24 hours a day, or left off for the duration. Either will work. You should be awakened at odd times, fed, and watered, to destroy your sense of time, which will leave you even more at the mercy of your Domme.

There is more info on such scenes at CastleRealm.com, which is a site for information and learning. It is not just for the beginner, but for the expert as well, and a wealth of information can be found there.

Sorry for the lateness of the answer, but I have been offline due to internet problems here.

I hope this helps.

                                     SINcerely in Leather,
                                     Master Shadow.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

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Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

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Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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