Expert: XR - 8/31/2007

Question
Hello and thankyou for taking my question. I take a antidepresant called CELEXA - unfortunately, one of the main side effects is that it renders it's users unable to have an orgasm. I find that the only way I can have one is by using "Toys": Butt plugs, prostate stimulators, etc. The smaller ones are not stimulating enough, but I am afraid that the larger ones - which cause stretching will ulitmately lead to colo-rectal problems: Would you know anything about this? Im thinking of going to a proctologist and asking him - I dont want to start using these items a lot if they are ultimately going to hurt me. Thanks.

Also - Even more importantly - I have been looking for, but cannnot find a smaller, thinner prostate stimulator that goes in really easy but has a vibrating tip (I think that would solve the whole problem) could you give me a website or a name of a product like that. Thanks

Answer
Hi Pete,
 Alright, I'm an employee of www.eXtremeRestraints.com. We carry a number of products intended for anal insertion that are greater than two inches in diameter and we move a lot of them. They simply take building up to over long periods of time. I've spoken to extreme anal enthusiasts and they don't seem to have problems stemming from their hobby. However, months of work often go into being able to accept very large toys. This is probably much more extreme than you're interested in, but I thought I'd put it out there. So, as for products I'd suggest:
http://www.extremerestraints.com/mens-pleasure-wand_1685.html
http://www.extremerestraints.com/the-rude-boy-dual-stimulator_2038.html

 Ultimately, lots of lube and take everything slow. I have to admit that large is relative, especially with our selection of huge dildos. Have you tried the aneros? It doesn't vibrate, but you might be able to get some pleasure from it without worrying, as it's a smaller toy. If you need a little bigger, they have the progasm. We carry all of these. We take our customers' pleasure seriously and try our best to carry products for all needs, be they super-kinky, or far more reserved.