Expert: arani_CsA - 4/19/2007

Question
QUESTION: I am a 43 year old novice BI Master. Just been involved in casual weekend kind of roles.
I have been toying with the idea of a true 24/7 slave fore sometime now, and have recently met a trainer who trains younger 20s boys for slavery, and after he completes the training, he gives them away.
Have You ever heard of this before, and do you see any problems with it? He says in the last 6 weeks of the training, he will train him  to my specifications.
My main concern would be if the slave would easily convert to me as its master after somebody else does the training, even tho they know upfront he is training them for an unknown master. Thanks, and enjoy your answers  J
ANSWER: Hello...

Yes, Sir, I have actually heard of Masters who specialize in training slaves for others.  And, in theory, it's not a bad thing.  There is a lot involved in training a slave -- much more than just making him aware of your particular rules and how you like to be served.  But it's a skill that many people profess to, but few actually have.

Just because a person feels an intense need to surrender to another in slavery, that doesn't mean he automatically knows how to do it.  Or how to deal with the feelings that come with these new urges.  He may not immediately be able to use his powers of observation to be able to discern his Master's tastes without being told.  Men, especially, are raised in a world where they are expected to be the head of the household and to be in charge.  They may not be able, at least initially, to be able to suppress that urge to protest when asked to do something distasteful or even painful -- as much as they may want to.  And then there's the matter of being able to cook a delicious meal, keep a house spotless, or cut his Master's hair, for instance.  And what about being able to tolerate a good caning without crying out?  Training a slave is a very complicated process.  A professional slave trainer can relieve you of some of that burden.  Some Masters like to break in their own slaves, others either don't know how or just prefer not to have to bother with it.

As to whether a slave would easily transfer his surrender to you, once he does become yours -- no, it probably won't be easy.  But a slave is often made to do things that aren't easy.  Some people become slaves when they decide to give themselves to one special person they have formed an attachment to.  Others (myself included) first surrender to the knowledge that they exist for the purpose of making others happy.  Note that I said "others"....these slaves will see everything they do as a form of service, and look to a Master to help direct them in this.  I often say that my Master is not the cause of my surrender, He is just the external focus of it.  And, too, I have known slaves who have been sold (without their prior knowledge), and who adjust to their new Masters simply because they have no other choice.

If you are going to use the services of a professional slave trainer, you should be very careful to check him out.  What is his philosophy about slavery?  What methods does he use to train his slaves?  How does he acquire the slaves that he trains?  And so on.  Ask him for references -- other Masters who have made use of his services, and even slaves that he has previously trained.  Discuss with him, at some length, what it is you are looking for in a slave, and ask him how he is going to go about providing that.  What happens if, after he turns your slave over to you, something goes wrong?  Does he work on line or off?  

Here are some good websites that discuss different philosophies regarding slave training:
http://www.bornslaves.com/index.html
http://www.bestslavetraining.com/
http://www.enslavement.org.uk/

I wish you luck in your search, Sir.  If you have any other questions, please feel free to send them my way.

arani_CsA,
devoted property of Clampius_Arelius

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QUESTION: Great information, and so far he has provided everything that You have suggested without Me asking for it, including talking with another master who has one of his slaves,and has had him for 4 years.And he also asked what sort of things I wanted a slave for,including the sexual uses.
He also has provided me with the detailed steps of his training, which to Me see, pretty brutal, but I know there are reasons for most of it.
I am not a sadistic type person by nature so for Me it works better to let somebody else do that part of  the training. I have no problem with discipline when needed, but do not derive pleasure from the slaves pain, if that makes sense.
Thanks again for the help  J


Answer
Thank you, Sir, for your kind words.  I have actually encountered many Masters and slaves who do not enjoy S/m play.  (Particularly in the Gorean realm, where many are actually rather horrified by such activities.)  My Master and i do occasionally enjoy some play of this sort, but perhaps once every 3 or 4 months.  Our relationship is based more on service.

It sounds like you have found a genuine article, and I wish you success in your search for a slave to meet your needs.

arani_CsA,
devoted property of Clampius_Arelius