Expert: Oscar G. - 1/24/2006

Question
I am under consideration at this time. i like to show my Master my loyalty, my honesty, my heart. It is hard to him being 4 hours away. Any ideas on how to do this.My ideas would be booming if he were here. But rather difficult him being away. I'm at a loss. Such a challenge for me. Any ideas?  

Answer
Dear Talena:

If the communication between you and your potential master is good you should find out his desires and expectations. Loyalty is shown by sticking with him even if chips are down or lift his spirits if his mood is low. Your show your heart? you do it by acting lovingly and caringly. That can mean  a lot of things,but usually some romance stuff, if he is open to that kind of caring toward you. Honesty comes forth from you actions and deeds as a submisisve toward him.

Overall the best way to do and show it is perhaps showing it when he is not expecting it, besides of the times he is expecting all those things out from you. You could surprise  him with some preparations or taking the initiative about certain things before you meet. Many Master like to DO certain things themselves, but some things and gestures could be  appretiated. Wearing exactly what he  asked, but also if you know  he likes certain  color, wear it. If you know his favorite aromas  use them. If you know certain things he enjoys, have some of that to offer him.

If he likes bondage, you could be self-tied to receive him? or have his favorite tools ready  for him. Also anticipate  fantasies, and  share them before meeting and something to look forward to.  The key is to communicate and  talk. Share and ask, so you can please.

In any case I hope it helps. Otherwise if you have a more specific query, feel free to ask again.
Best  Regards.
Be well, have fun and be safe.

Oscar G.