Expert: Oscar G. - 12/1/2007

Question
Alright... Here's the basic situation. My sub (I would describe her as a Gorean slave) has recently severely displeased and disappointed me, and will, of course, need to be punished. The catch is, we are half a continent away. She is very good with carrying out her punishments, but there's only so much I can do. She is 18 and in high school, and my normal punishment of sending her to classes without panties or with a vibrator is simply not enough this time. So, I need help and ideas for her punishment. I favor humiliation, clearly, but I've simply run out of ideas. I need some form of punishment that she could perform herself (and I have no doubts that she would perform it) that would let her know that I will not tolerate her behavior.
Hope that was clear enough, and thanks in advance.
-N

Answer
Hi Neil:

Sorry for the delay with the holidays. Humiliation is a very relative thing for each individual. What may break and humiliate someone else, may not be big deal to someone else. But in the aspect of erotic humiliation it is a bit hard to do certain things with such a distance between you two. But depending on both of your limits, here are a few suggestions.

Hidden vibrators are fun and all, but also you could try anal plugs or chastity devices. If you trust her enough to carry it out, you can either ask for the description of the experience, or get proof positive via web cam or digital pictures (isn't modern technology great?) Also making her wear a gag (panties or ballgag) when at home and chatting to you or writing to you, could help her think of her actions a bit better before breaking rules. Maybe wearing a visible  collar at a public place for display in a special time and place. Also certain strict code of dress or special errand/quest for her  to perform with little proofs along the way to send you or take snap shots.
That is what i can give you of the top of my head. I think that can spark more ideas of your own and you can find suitable for you both. I hope it helps.
Be well, have fun and be safe.
Oscar G.