Expert: Master Shadow - 8/3/2007

Question
My partner and I are into light BDSM.  She has asked that I wear a cock harness as a personal reminder of her - something that is personal and known only by us.  I enjoy wearing it and am honored to do that for her.  It is like her hands are around me all the time.  My questions is - what can i get her and ask her to wear on a constant basis in the same vein as my cock harness.  Obviously it has to be something that is not a huge irritant, but a constant reminder of me.  She has pierced nipples, hood and lips and wears bars now, so that is taken care of ... i just need some suggestions.  Thanks for your time

Answer
There are a great many ideas on this. My own opinion would be to get her tatooed. Something simple, like your initials on Her thigh, where she can see it. It will not cause a stir in the nilla world, but both She and you would know the significance of it, and as it is not removable will be a constant reminder.

Another idea is a locking bracelet. I prefer a bullring, available at any rural farm store. It is made to go through the nose of a bull, but will fit most wrists nicely, is made of brass, and once placed, cannot be removed. You might check out RuralKing, which has an online catalogue, and will ship for a small fee.

I have placed these on my slave, and she wears them permanently. Once the screw is inserted and tightened, the tab is broken off, leaving no way to remove it short of cutting it off.

I hope this helps.


                                     SINcerely in Leather,
                                     Master Shadow.