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Hi, first of all I hope you don't take any offense at my question. I am married and currently serving in Iraq. My wife and I "play" with bdsm. The play thing, is what I hope you don not take offense at since I understand how serious it can be. But, to keep some spark alive at home, do you have any creative ideas for errands, tests, scavenger hunts or tasks I can have my wife do while I am here? Things to keep her curiosity piqued but not scare her too badly?

I really appreciate any advice.
Thank You.
Jared

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I have thought long and hard on this question, and realised I need more information about the two of you, and exactly what you are into. Please contact me, and let me know more about yourselves, so I can better answer your question. You may either send the info here, or leave your e mail address here so that I may contact you for further information. If you leave your e mail address here, mark the question as private, so that everyone else doesn't wind up knowing your e mail address.


                                   SINcerely in Leather,
                                   Master Shadow.


Have you ever thought about tattoos, or piercings? Say like Your initials in script on her thigh or something?  My wife bears my initials on Her thigh in olde English script. It looks awesome, says She is mine, and is permanent.

The choice was Hers, but the font, and placement was mine alone. She now bears My mark upon Her body, and is considering getting a piercing, should I ok it beforehand.
Her nips are already pierced, and I am thinking of other places for the piercing.

A tattoo could be had for next to nothing. Ours cost $75.00, and can be shown in pics to me, as well as on webcam. Nothing says it better than a tattoo, in my opinion, and would make a wonderful gift for either of Y/you.

If I think of anything else, I will be sure to send it right off. Meanwhile, I hope this will give the two of Y/you something to think about, and possibly have done in the future. They can be discretely placed, and only the two of Y/you will understand the significance of it.

The pain isn't that bad, and if taken care of the first three weeks, the tat will look totally awesome! My wife's tat healed in record time, as We followed the instructions to the letter as far as aftercare.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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