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my Master has told me that i am not to smoke, yet it is so hard not to go behind his back and do it... it is an addiction and a big one at that... i just cant not have one. i am struggling with withdrawrals... He has also said that i am not to cut myself anymore.. and that too is really hard... He tells me that i suck at being dedicated and i need to work harder... this makes me feel bad because He is always telling me how disappointed he is... how can i be more dedicated
Alisha,
First off both things are hard to over come and the cutting alone you should be seeing someone that can help with the emotional problems of that part of your life.
What happen to being supportive and loving and to help others over come the short falls that they have? I most be missing something here, but ask your Dr about it there is some new stuff out that can help you to not smoke any longer.
I have to be frank with you here and just say I could not stop if that was the help I was receiving to help me stop to please them. But it is your life as well his and you need to talk with him and get some non smoking ads to help you take on the battle and over come it. I do thing he should be proud of you for trying this as well supportive and encouraging you to stop and make it a good thing and one of honor and a victory for you both once it is over come.
I hope that this has helped some and good luck to you both.
awhitecloud
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awhitecloud
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
Experience
I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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