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About James Dixtan
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I have reserched this topic for some time and know the most safe and efficiant ways to make this area as pleasurable as possible. I mostly deal with the "how-to" of things, since many first timers wish to know how to get things donw.

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Now five years into a master/slave relationship. Two years as a expert to AllExperts.
 
   

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BDSM - Spanking


Expert: James Dixtan - 10/20/2003

Question
I am married but my wife is turned off by spanking.I love my wife, but really would enjoy a good spanking or to spank a female. Do you know how I can find a female in my area? I really don't have the money to pay. I am not interested in groups as much as discrete meetings. I am in northern LA county.

Answer
To Carson,
         Unfortunatly,I do not live in America,so if the answer I give is different from what you are expecting,I apologise for this.
         Finding a spanking partner is not as impossible as it may seem,it is simply a matter of time and consistant effort. You can't simply go up and ask every lady you fancy if they are interested in spanking,but rather look for the ones who are already looking for people like you. The best way to search for this without having to pay for it, would be to search the newspaper for 'personals'. And I do not mean the ordinary papers,there are a print of every type of fetish around,so you will have to research where they are and how to purchase them.
         But I would have you reconsider doing this without your wife's knowledge. Even though she may be turned off by the thought of spanking, she will undoubtly know (all females to) if you're doing something behind her back.Research first and then when you find something suitable, apporach her with the task of getting her to indulge in your fatasy. Also hint they she may get what ever fantasy treated the same way by you.
regards,
James Dixtan.

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