You are here:

BDSM/Time between scenes.

Advertisement


Question
How much time should I give my sub between scenes? I know she will be sore for a while, but am not sure how lond I should wait between scenes. Is there some sort of formula for this, or is it just about the same for everybody?

Answer
Usually a week should suffice for most scenes, as it takes about a week for the bruises and marks to heal properly. During this week, watch the subs body for signs of trouble, such as a bruise, or cut not healing properly, and if necessary, get the sub medical attention. The Howard Brown Medical group is comprised of Lifestyle doctors and nurses who are familiar with the lifestyle, and the injuries caused by it during scening. They have a polocy of protecting those into the lifestyle, as well as providing free confidential hiv/aids testing, and do not notify authorities unless there are actual signs of abuse. I would recommend an aloe based lotion, or, if it can be found, Arnika for the bruises, as it tends to minumise the bruises, and helps them to heal quicker. Use triple antibiotic cream or ointment if there are any cuts or scratches, if there is knife play or cutting involved in the scene. I hope this is helpful for You. Be well, stay safe, and have fun.

                                     SINcerely in Leather,
                                     Master Shadow.

BDSM

All Answers


Answers by Expert:


Ask Experts

Volunteer


Master Shadow

Expertise

Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

©2012 About.com, a part of The New York Times Company. All rights reserved.