Expert: Oscar G. - 5/31/2007

Question
Im a 20 year old female and after a long seperation from my paartner who is a 24 year old male- we have finally got back together. However during the time we were apart i had alot of fun experimenting in ageplay and now really enjoy being my little on a regular basis.
When i told my partner about this he was weirded out completley.
He is due to be moving back in with me soon and although i am certain he is the person i love and want to be with for the rest of my life i dont know what to do about my fetish...he definitly wont be up for an open relationship and he didnt seem keen on participating to say the least and while i respect his veiws i cant help but worry about having to supress my inner kid :(
what sould i do?
thanks  

Answer
Hi poppy:

It is a complicated mater. But i will give you my own opinion.
It all depends on what he needs to do for you and how deep if your age play level. Some guys like little girls, but not to the point of being incestuous or having to change diapers. But i know there are some extreme levels of infantilism that other people like to play.
You got to talk to him about your need and why it does work for you. If he cannot handle that part of you, see if perhaps he could keep you safe finding someone that will fill your inner kid. If you have to have it, you need to be open with your partner, if you plan to live and have a working relationship. I do not think is honest or productive to hide it and act in hiding. If the gap is to big, you may need to re-evaluate relationship needs and how much you both have changed.
But there should be a compromise point where you can have what you want. But still have a good relation.
That is my 2 cents on the matter. I hope it can give you some insight.
Be well, and be safe.