Expert: Master Shadow - 5/31/2007

Question
Im a 20 year old female and after a long seperation from my paartner who is a 24 year old male- we have finally got back together. However during the time we were apart i had alot of fun experimenting in ageplay and now really enjoy being my little on a regular basis.
When i told my partner about this he was weirded out completley.
He is due to be moving back in with me soon and although i am certain he is the person i love and want to be with for the rest of my life i dont know what to do about my fetish...he definitly wont be up for an open relationship and he didnt seem keen on participating to say the least and while i respect his veiws i cant help but worry about having to supress my inner kid :(
what sould i do?
thanks xxx

Answer
This is a hard question to answer. The first thing you have to ask yourself is "Which is more important to me?". I know that you state you would like to spend the rest of your life with this person, but are you willing to suppress that inner need in yourself to do so?

You and he need to set down, and have a very serious conversation in regards to this subject. He needs to understand how deep this feeling goes, and you are the only one who can explain it to him. Does he understand how much you need to feel free to express yourself, and is he willing to allow it, or will he expect you to repress your innermost desire?

Neurosis can sometimes develop because one has no outlet to express themselves, and they suppress a very important, and beautiful part of themselves to please others, which is wrong.

Do you love him so deeply that you are willing to suppress this part of yourself, not just for the present, but for the rest of your life? Only you can answer that question.

If he is unwilling to participate, and unwilling to allow you to express this desire outside the household, then you need to find the answers to these questions, or resentments will develop, and arguments will ensue, leading to a possible breakup, and hard feelings on both sides. I'm sorry that I cannot be of more help in this matter, but hope I have helped some.


                                     SINcerely in Leather,
                                     Master Shadow.