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i want to thank you for your help i just want to know when i tie her in silk what should i use to keep her tied and where or whahere should i tie her hands and feet so i dont hurt she will be tied all weekend even when she has to go to the bath room she does not mind being tied when i am screwing her now she likes it and it might be a lot differnt being that way for the weekend and to tell her she is going to be a sex slave please give your in sight on this pete  

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Dear Pete:

I apologize I was delayed on my answer to you. I was getting ready for the holiday weekend and did not see my mail. But on to your question.
If you want to keep her restrained for a long time without hurting her and also making her comfortable, you need to tie and retie often  her extremities and the wider the ties better  so you do not cut her blood flow. If you plan to have her restrained for a  whole weekend I would recommend you invest in purchasing LEATHER wristbands/handcuffs. There are many types of leather anklets and bracelets that are  comfortable padded for comfort and long term use. You could lock those with small padlocks so they cannot be taken off (but Be SURE you have the keys and spares handy!)
Leather restrains can be worn comforatbly for LONG periods and even eat or go to the restroom. Many of them come with metal loops that you can use to tie the lady to the bed or other furnitues if you happen to have anchor points, snap links, or other similar sturdy places to hook those leather cuffs.
I hope this helps.
Oscar G

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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

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15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying

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Engineering & Military

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Military and respect from my peers in the BDSM community

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