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Hello and thankyou for taking my question. I take a antidepresant called CELEXA - unfortunately, one of the main side effects is that it renders it's users unable to have an orgasm. I find that the only way I can have one is by using "Toys": Butt plugs, prostate stimulators, etc. The smaller ones are not stimulating enough, but I am afraid that the larger ones - which cause stretching will ulitmately lead to colo-rectal problems: Would you know anything about this? Im thinking of going to a proctologist and asking him - I dont want to start using these items a lot if they are ultimately going to hurt me. Thanks.

Also - Even more importantly - I have been looking for, but cannnot find a smaller, thinner prostate stimulator that goes in really easy but has a vibrating tip (I think that would solve the whole problem) could you give me a website or a name of a product like that. Thanks

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I think first that I would seek another antidepressant without the sexual side effects, if possible. There are many new drugs on the market that do not have the side effects that you mention.

www.sextoysex.com would be one of the places I would check with, as well as www.kittenstoyroom.com. Both of these vendors sell good quality toys at a reasonable price.

Another place to check out would be http://achella.com another fine vendor. There are many other places on the net where good quality anal toys may be purchased, such as www.toolworkschicago.com, and www.stockroom.com
I hope this helps.


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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

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Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

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Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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