BDSM/cbt

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Thank you very much for your answer.  I will most certainly try that.  

Have you ever had someone to consecutive orgasms.  I was wondering if that would be considered CBT and how many times would seem reasonable.  In the past I know that when i masterbate over four time in one day I get sore.


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I was wondering if you have any suggestions for self performed cbt.  I have been ball stretching, using ben gay, tiger balm, rubber bands, the humbler, CB-2000 chasitiy device, ice, heat, urethral play, abrasion play, clothes pins, forced masterbation with eating cum.

Is there anything else you can suggest.

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Dear Matt,

It seems you have all the bases almost covered. Have you tried mummification of the penis? Use either electrical or medical tape and wrap the entire penis the pleasure of pulling the tape off will drive you wild. Gates of Hell works well to. Maybe even try some nipple to penis clamps and chains.

Sincerely,
Miztress_Highlander(Anima)

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Dear Matt,

Training a male sub/slave for consecutive orgasm's is difficult, but can be done. If you find yourself getting sore then I do not think you are using either enough or the right kind of lube. It is a kind of CBT but I tend to put it more in the category of personal training and requirements.

Sincerely,
Miztress_Highlander(Anima)

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I can answer most any question you have about BDSM and the leather community. My strong suits include sceneing,toys,furniture and fetishes, as well as helping someone figure out if they are top,bottom or even a switch. I am also well versed in good books to read for people starting out in the BDSM lifestyle and website/groups that might help you get in touch with like-minded people. I can also help you with collaring ceremonies or handfastings.

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