this guy wrote at 2011-09-29 22:51:28
I am in the same situation except I am a male sub trying to help my wife discover her inner Domme. She is taking well to it but I think her biggest problem is understanding that I NEED the humiliation in service as much as I enjoy it.
the website that helped the most was aroundherfinger.com
Polydoc wrote at 2012-11-27 13:58:16
I know you posted this several years later. I hope that things turned out the way you wanted. In the future or for any of your friends, the book Radical Ecstacy by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy discusses how one can attain a very spiritual experience. Also they wrote The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book.
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