Expert: awhitecloud - 11/7/2007

Question
I have met a wonderful girl who makes me very happy. She works as a submissive in a well known dungeon in LA. I have never been to a dungeon, although i would count myself as a very open minded person. I want to know more about what she may go through in the dungeon, is it safe? Will she come into contact with bodily fluid? What would a typical night in one of the private rooms entail?

I have obviously discussed all this and more with her, but I am interested and would really appreciate some other opinions, or accounts of visiting a submissive in a dungeon to better understand it, and my own feelings.

Answer
Sorry to say that I do not have much experience with dungeon’s in the LA area. With what I know of them in WA and in OR there is no exchange of body fluids and all is safe.

Maybe you need to talk with her on this and attend the dungeon and see what happens inside of it?

I know that ours both parties talk out the limits and they only play with in those limits or all actions are stopped. There are DM’s (Dungeon Monitors) on the floors here that walk around to make sure that people are safe and that there are no problems.

Communication with her is your best key, as in any activity safety is a large thing and you need to know she is safe, as well that you can both live with what you are doing in your active relationship.

I wish I could help you more but I think if you went to the dungeon yourself that it might be worth you just finding out what takes place first hand.

awhitecloud