BDSM/help in training a sub
Expert: Master Shadow - 7/8/2007
QuestionQUESTION: well i wantted to get my hubby into it but he was afrade of it and he didnt know what to think. he just kept on saying not now not now....a month ago i bought him a porno tape of it lol. but he didnt watch it. so 3 days ago i ent to the sextoy store and got all the toys i wantted but that was the first time i did it and got so much.lol
i got
1 strapon
1 anal plug
2 vibraters lol
1 ball gag
blindfold
2 handcuffs
1 Waist Cincher Chastity Corset for him lol
http://www.sub-shop.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=439
went home and set everything up lol i dress normal in a bathrobe when he got home and put the blind fold on him and said take off your cloths and come to the bed room i want to show you my new gift to you lol.i made him sit down in the chair put the handcuffs on him with his hands behind the chair. and made him watch the porno tape i got him.then after he said it was alittle fun so i made him use the Waist Cincher Chastity Corset. I started to play with him and he didnt know about the other toys and i unlocked the leather panty part of the Waist Cincher Chastity Corset. I started to ram his ass so good i have been having wet dreams just thinking about it lol and day dreams.but he didnt know about the strapon and he said will you do that to me all the time well we are having sex...i waited 5 seconds and took out the vibrater and slowly put it up his ass then put the leather panty part back on lol.I have just started with my ideas on what to do to him but i cant think of anything new ideas to humiliate him with im starting on Forced Feminization.lol its fun but i need some good ideas to go with it so can you help me train him.
ANSWER: I would think it was time to go shopping for "clothes" for your "girl". There are many second hand shops that have much to offer for feminization, everything from dresses and panties to bras and even pumps, along with matching purses.
There are also magnetic earrings that set of any ensemble nicely, along with bracelets, and necklaces. The next thing to do after that is possibly invite over a few girlfriends for a girls night, where your new "girl" can serve drinks, food, and whatever your heart desires.
You might also try a few websites, such as CastleRealm.com for ideas about where to go from there. Also, I would think a few pictures of your new "girl" are in order, in sexy poses, of coarse. The ideas are endless as to what to do with your new girl.
Good luck to you and your new plaything :)
SINcerely in Leather,
Master Shadow.
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QUESTION: thank you for the other reply but i want to humiliate "her" some more and i want more other than feminizing her more i want some ideas of what i can get "her" to do at work and at home (we have aggred to do this 100% when we are home)
AnswerGet 'her' some ruffly panties and make 'her' wear them under her slacks. Get her some lace top thigh highs that stay up on their own, or fishnet panty hose, and make her wear them under her slacks. Get her a garter belt to hold up her thigh highs.
Take her shopping and get her a sports bra to wear while at work, and a regular bra for around the house. Make her try on the bra to make sure it fits. Take her to the fitting room, and of course in the public she'll have to go to the mens fitting room, but make her try on the bras, and then make her open the door and show you how the bras fit.
Get her some panties that are really frilly. Lots of lace and bows. For men,(gurls), thongs and t-tops are more uncomfortable than other types of panties but it makes a point.
Wal-Mart and I'm sure other stores carry falsies for women to put into their bras. It will give lift and push a womans breasts together, but for a 'gurl' it will give her breasts. Also, you can take water balloons fill them with water to about the same size and put it into her bra to give her breasts. You can also use condoms. The nub at the end will give a nipple effect, and make the breasts feel real. Keep in mind, womens breasts are not both the exact same size, so if one comes out bigger than the other that makes it better.
While at the store, look for outfits in the womens section. Skirts, and pretty shirts. Get her some pajamas to wear around the house. Make it fun to find outfits and things for her to wear. While looking for outfits, hold the shirt up to her shoulders, or the skirt up to her waist, and make sure you make comments loud enough for people to hear about the skirt or shirt or whatever clothing your choosing fitting and looking good on her.
While at home, (she must be fully shaved for this, otherwise undue pain will happen), there are ways to tape back the genitalia (Gender Bender). When done properly, it will pull back the male organ making them flat in front.
You can shave her. It will make her feel exposed and vulnerable. Most men feel anxious at having another person have something sharp around the family jewels.
Any time she goes to the bathroom, whether at work or at home, make her sit down. Women have to sit down whether peeing or otherwise, make her do the same as any other woman would have to do. She's Your gurl.
When she leaves for work, make her put on some lip gloss. If anyone asks, for all they know it can be chapped stick. Only You and her will know that it's lip gloss.
There are perfumes out there that most can not tell if it's mens or womens perfume. Make her wear it. Also You can get her some perfume, and make her wear it, and if anyone asks at work, just have her tell them that she hugged You right after You put on your perfume that morning.
While she's at work, make her call You to get permission to go to the bathroom. Make sure You remind her to sit when she uses the restroom.
You can also put a butt plug in her anus and make her wear it at work all day. Don't do it every day, but something like every Friday. If she must have a bowel movement while at work, make her ask permission to remove the plug until she is through and then it's to be replaced only after it's been washed. The thongs, or other panties that you choose will help hold the plug in place. If she removes the plug at any time with out permission, punish her.
Be well, play safe, and have fun! Remember, it is your property, to do with what YOU choose :)
SINcerely in Leather,
Master Shadow.