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| New to BDSM | 10/9/2008 |
Q: I am a new Domme with a newbie slaveboy. We have both been interested the BDSM scene but never ...
A: NOTHIHNG is essential in this lifestyle, not pain, bisexuality, humiliation, only if you like it and ...
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| Mentors-local community? | 10/6/2008 |
Q: My dom and I are fairly new to the lifestyle, we've been involved and discovering together for about ...
A: http://www.impacthome.com This is a group in TN, go to their website for membership info, they seem ...
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| Mentors-local community? | 10/6/2008 |
Q: My dom and I are fairly new to the lifestyle, we've been involved and discovering together for about ...
A: If you can tell me what area you are in, I will hook you up with the right people to mentor you. ...
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| cbt advice | 10/6/2008 |
Q: i have a high pain threshold which i know is dangerous in some ways; cd You pass specific comment on ...
A: CBT is in many ways a creative venture, there are always toys and new ways to play. I don't ...
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| cbt | 10/5/2008 |
Q: i have a Dom male friend who is very keen to develop my experience and tolerance of cbt. I am eager ...
A: You should not insert anything into your penis that is not sterile. Sounds play is fine as long as ...
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| Polly house hold | 10/3/2008 |
Q: It has been Master and I for the last 8 month in the last 2 month she has asked me to find a bi ...
A: What this means is that you are the Alpha sub. You are the Mistress of the other three girls and you ...
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| Help for a Friend | 9/14/2008 |
Q: It recently came out to my friend that I am a sub. He has consequently expressed interest in BDSM to ...
A: You can have him do some reading on the subject and learn since he is going to have a tough time. ...
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| Loving Domme | 8/29/2008 |
Q: I am a bit lost on this one. I am new to the lifestyle. I am a domme and recently met a sub ...
A: Go to Amazon.com and order this book: The Loving Dominant it will tell you everything you need to ...
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| top training | 8/26/2008 |
Q: I am brand new to BDSM. I am dating an old school switch, wondering where I could go for lessons so ...
A: You should join a lifestyle group and learn from the group and the play parties. I learned an awful ...
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| "public announcements" | 8/17/2008 |
Q: How does one go about letting selected people know that he or she desires to serve in the ...
A: You join a local group, go to some munches and meet people in the scene. Wearing a pink collar ...
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| Long distance service | 8/16/2008 |
Q: Ma'am, i just asked the question but gave the wrong email, it is as above. please accept my apology. ...
A: Long distance relationships do not work even when both parties are single. Both of you are cheating ...
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| Long distance | 8/16/2008 |
Q: My Mistress is a married Woman who lives 800 miles from me. i have known her for many years, ...
A: Long distance relationships do not work even when both parties are single. Both of you are cheating ...
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| new online relationship | 7/13/2008 |
Q: Just a few weeks into the online world of BDSM - registered at bondage.com forum as a bottom and was ...
A: I'm scared for you sweetie!! Please email me and I will be happy to guide you to the right sort of ...
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| Rewards & Punishments | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I am in a D/s relationship that is not M/s, though we are incorporating some behaviour modification ...
A: Let your imagination run wild. You can get some books to read on the subject at Amazon.com, I've ...
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| my fantasy | 6/25/2008 |
Q: i sometimes think about sounding. is it ruff if not how do i start? it looks interesting
A: It can be very stimulating, but you can also rupture the urethra which can cause you to bleed to ...
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| Pro domme | 6/20/2008 |
Q: I really want to find out how does one start off as a professional Domme?? I have thought about ...
A: You can't even spell or compose a coherent sentence. You are an uneducated piece of trailer trash ...
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| Pro domme | 6/19/2008 |
Q: I really want to find out how does one start off as a professional Domme?? I have thought about ...
A: Forgive me, but I'm going to be blunt and direct.This isn't a vocation, it's a calling. You ...
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| Pro domme | 6/13/2008 |
Q: I really want to find out how does one start off as a professional Domme?? I have thought about ...
A: Some dommes take trainees, some don't. The best thing is to go to events and watch and learn and ask ...
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| grin | 6/12/2008 |
Q: At school, everyone knows me as a sweet, innocent, kind, friendly, fun girl. I'm also a virgin. So ...
A: Honey, this is the 21st century. Women have come a long way since the prim and proper 40's when if ...
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| Dom registry? | 6/9/2008 |
Q: Now, I was speaking to someone the other day, and they mentioned to me about how their friend is a ...
A: I've never heard of such a thing as a registered Dom in the 25 years I've been in the scene, it ...
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| My new sub's foot fetish | 5/14/2008 |
Q: Greetings CougarDomme, I have a new sub boyfriend whom I care for very deeply, I was in a previous ...
A: Carla, Each relationship, even in the vanilla world, is constantly being redefined and renegotiated. ...
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| developing relationship with wife | 5/13/2008 |
Q: I've recently introduced my wife to the idea of spanking me to help me behave more to her liking. ...
A: You need to go slow with her so that her interest continues to develop. She's not hard-wired like ...
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| new to this | 5/11/2008 |
Q: hey i am new at the whole bdsm thing i have never tired it before and i trust the person that i am ...
A: 16 is much too young to be with anyone much less someone who is so young that they also cannot ...
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