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| How to find a slavegirl | 10/31/2009 |
Q: What is the best way for me to find a beautiful slavegirl aged between 19 and 25? I'm looking to ...
A: Matthew Create a profile on collarme.com, alt.com, bondage.com, and fetlife.com.. they are all ...
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| Wife wants to explore with another man... | 10/23/2009 |
Q: My wife has recently revealed to me that she wants to explore bdsm with someone else. She has been ...
A: I would like to begin by saying that the root of what we do in BDSM or Dominance and submission is ...
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| Submissive ashamed of herself | 9/18/2009 |
Q: Am I a bad person? I truly feel that I am given the circumstances I will describe. I am a submissive ...
A: First let me say, although i don't know you personally, You are not a bad person. This lifestyle ...
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| Training a Master | 9/17/2009 |
Q: This may sound odd, but how do I train my husband to be okay with owning me? I have a very strong ...
A: Lindsey Believe it or not i get this question a lot from potential slaves. How do i train my boy ...
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| hesitant about certain activities | 9/12/2009 |
Q: I'm a 38 year old woman exploring a relationship with a man who'd like to be my master. He has 25 ...
A: Greetings Thank you for the questions. The word no when associated with a request or order given ...
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| Wants to be my Master so soon?????? | 9/1/2009 |
Q: I met a man who claims to be a Dom/Master. After entrusting myself to Him and agreeing to let Him ...
A: It is a wonderful thing that you have found someone for which you love and respect.. That i huge no ...
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| New to M/S | 9/1/2009 |
Q: Well just recently met a guy and we hit it off. Now out of the blue, because prior to going out with ...
A: Believe it or not, this is a common question. To be honest i am not a fan of "the hurry up" ...
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| Wants to be my Master so soon?????? | 9/1/2009 |
Q: I met a man who claims to be a Dom/Master. After entrusting myself to Him and agreeing to let Him ...
A: Your reservations should be listened to. I have never heard of any set time for becoming one's slave ...
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| Sub levels | 8/30/2009 |
Q: I was wanting to know what the lead or head slave is called? And are there sub levels in an ...
A: Hey there Jody In the household in which i serve i am know as the ALPHA slave or major domo. my ...
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| Is it possible to be submissive without knowing them | 8/29/2009 |
Q: I've been reading blogs of submissives where alot of their submission comes from their partners ...
A: . i happen to really enjoy theoretical questions ...smiles. It has been my experience that D/s and ...
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| Where do I start as a Dom. | 8/16/2009 |
Q: I am a male Dom who is new to the scene. I met an experience female sub that I am really into, we ...
A: .. My feeling as regards to how to dominant someone begins with you sir. What is natural to your ...
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| Looking for a mentor | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I am a twenty year old girl going through a very exciting and enlightening period of my life. I have ...
A: First, i applaud you for seeing the need to find yourself before acting on the level of submission ...
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| finding good information | 8/4/2009 |
Q: I am just coming to realize the truth about myself, I am submissive. There I said it out loud so to ...
A: First i applaud you for reaching out for more information and for saying out loud your truth.. very ...
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| how can I tell? | 8/2/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both interested about BDSM but are also very very new to it. I am sure that I ...
A: Linnea Thank you for your question. I can understand your confusion as to what role your partner ...
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| top versus domme | 7/28/2009 |
Q: Okay, I am new to the scene and want some clarification regarding the differences between a top and ...
A: CJ Thanks for the question.. i hope i am able to offer you some insite.. After years in the scene ...
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| pleasing my owner better | 7/12/2009 |
Q: I've been going through a lot emotionaly lately and can't seem to focus on the day to day tasks of ...
A: I am sorry to hear you are having difficulties. Not knowing what your are going though emotionally ...
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| Nervous Potential Sub | 7/9/2009 |
Q: I am very interested in the D/S lifestyle, specifically the submissve side. However, I am a virgin ...
A: I very much recommend talking to other subs/slaves as a way to learning more how they feel or ...
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| Submission | 7/9/2009 |
Q: My partner has requested that I do research on how to be a "true sub". I have never done anything ...
A: Greetings Yes i am familar with the series.. another is called the Market Place series... although ...
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| Submission | 7/8/2009 |
Q: My partner has requested that I do research on how to be a "true sub". I have never done anything ...
A: ... Addmittedly i dont care for the term 'True sub" To me a person who wishes to submit to the ...
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| term | 6/30/2009 |
Q: .what does the term try and buy mean? someone used that term recently and I have never heard it ...
A: The term try and buy comes from the earlier days of BDSM here in the states. A dominant might meet ...
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| Waiting period | 6/1/2009 |
Q: I am very new to all of this. In searching the Internet I found a man claiming to be a well ...
A: Please allow me to share my experience with regard to mentoring. I am a mentor and have also been ...
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| dom/slave relationship | 5/9/2009 |
Q: I am new to this lifestyle. I have recently found out that my Dominant has another slave, but he ...
A: I hope this email finds you well and in good spirits. Not really know you or your owner and the big ...
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| I think my boyfriend is secretly into this stuff... | 5/4/2009 |
Q: Ok, I'm 22 and I've been with my boyfriend for four years and we've had anal sex off and on ...
A: Admittedly I had to take a moment to really think about the best way to answer your questions. I ...
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| Dynamics of a relationship | 3/27/2009 |
Q: I have a question about the dynamics and evolution of a relationship. It is master/slave, but I ...
A: A little bit about me, just so that you have a point of referance. I am a lesbian myself. I am 45 ...
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| shocked | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I've recently started dating a man and we've really hit it off. He's handsome, smart, funny, rich ...
A: To answer your questions I would not avail myself of someone who i found to be untrustworthy, ...
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| "It" | 2/6/2009 |
Q: I started serving a wonderful Dom two months ago. We live in different states and only get to see ...
A: I hope I can shed some light on your inquiry. The use of the term"it" and referring to ones self in ...
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| checking in | 1/21/2009 |
Q: how r u doing? been reading the room, enjoyed your feedback...:-). i am well. i did something ive ...
A: Fetlife is a site friends of mine created. WWW.fetlife.com It is a place to read the thoughts and ...
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| checking in | 1/21/2009 |
Q: how r u doing? been reading the room, enjoyed your feedback...:-). i am well. i did something ive ...
A: I am well.. thank you for asking. i am allowed to talk about myself but i don't tend to do that ...
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| taking from another dom | 1/20/2009 |
Q: i am a lesbian and want to take a slave from a male dom. is there a proper way of doing this that i ...
A: i would recommend you have a sit down with the slave and the dominant. I feel its important that the ...
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| Watersports | 1/17/2009 |
Q: I have heard that pee is sterile but I am not sure. I have a friend that wants to pee into my ...
A: Yes, I would say that tummy legs genitals, down you back it can all be very erotic while still being ...
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| Watersports | 1/17/2009 |
Q: I have heard that pee is sterile but I am not sure. I have a friend that wants to pee into my ...
A: Piss can be a vector for a number of communicable diseases... i would not recommend allowing your ...
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| breaking in | 1/11/2009 |
Q: .I have a slave coming here on the 19th of this month. what would you suggest to break her in as far ...
A: Greetings James. Congratulations on your new find and thank you for the question. There are many ...
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| Collaring and Training | 1/7/2009 |
Q: ziggy, I am fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle. My slave and I have known each other for several ...
A: WOW congratulations.. It sounds as if you have found a great match for you. A wonderful thing I ...
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| how do i make him a master | 1/6/2009 |
Q: i have a problem i love bdsm i love pain, sex, being a slave i have a rape fantasy i love everything ...
A: Greetings Astrid Thank you for the question. What I understand of your question is that you are ...
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| moving from one to the other | 12/31/2008 |
Q: my question is this. i have been in the D/s life for a couple years now. i was with Someone and in ...
A: Greetings Kim Thank you for the question. Lets see if I can shed some light on your question but ...
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| True Submission | 12/15/2008 |
Q: . I've been married for a year and a half to a man who is very interested in the BDSM lifestyle.. ...
A: I hope this finds you well and in good spirits. Thank you for offering such interesting questions. ...
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| Renaming | 12/7/2008 |
Q: What is the signficance of a Master giving his sub a new name?
A: Greetings Yolanda Thank you for the question. Let me see if I can give you my perception of this. ...
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| where do i go from now? | 12/2/2008 |
Q: i recently got involved in a master slave triangle with one of my mates. This began with a month of ...
A: Greetings TT I completely understand.... i started in the scene back in the early 80s and there was ...
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| where do i go from now? | 12/2/2008 |
Q: i recently got involved in a master slave triangle with one of my mates. This began with a month of ...
A: Greetings: Thank you for the question. If I understand you correctly, you had an agreement with the ...
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| Newbie | 11/21/2008 |
Q: We are a married couple new to BDSM. My wife has submissive desires and we have been playing for 3 ...
A: Not to worry about the length of your e-mail, I am happy to read it and respond. First, right where ...
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| mentorship, household management, and training | 11/20/2008 |
Q: I am a Sadist, and have been in the lifestyle now for over 3 yrs. I currently own 3 slaves (1 ...
A: Its sounds as if you are off to a wonderful start. Being authentically who you are naturally puts ...
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| Lashings versus Markings | 11/18/2008 |
Q: I have been in a D/s relationship for over a year now. I am sub. I am a painslut and can take ...
A: A very interesting question you pose. As you know, the body is an amazing thing. From a ...
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| SecondLife BDSM | 11/6/2008 |
Q: . I have been a sub/slave for about 4 months. My questions are: is it normal for Master not to ...
A: Please allow me to address each one individually: 1. Is it normal for Master to not reveal his ...
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