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| frusterated | 11/19/2009 |
Q: my wife has a submissive personalty she likes to be tied up and is into light BDSM ...but we are ...
A: Sean, All relationships are different. What works for you and your partner is what works. What ...
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| master slave relations | 11/3/2009 |
Q: my wife has ben a submissive for years!!! i am new to bdsm so i dont understand she wants to be a ...
A: Hmmm Please correct me if I'm wrong, but this sounds as though she wants to do Master/slave ...
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| Erotic Humilation | 10/6/2009 |
Q: Six months ago I hired a 26 year old young women to work at my company (Maryam) and over the past ...
A: David, Let me try taking this in pieces. First, about you wearing a collar: consider other symbols ...
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| Need to Serve | 9/18/2009 |
Q: I'm married. My husband has a dominant personality, but it's been suppressed his entire life, ...
A: Lindsey, First, I apologize for the delay in replying. We live in Panama and I was away on a photo ...
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| BDSM | 9/11/2009 |
Q: Sir please tell me that what is BDSM.
A: BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline; Dominance and submission; sado-masochism. In a nutshell, ...
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| Married but submissive | 9/10/2009 |
Q: I am a submissive female, married to a vanilla guy. In the time we have been together (over 5 years) ...
A: Melissa... I truly empathize. I've actually been in your situation, but as the guy. I'm still ...
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| Male Master/ female submissive relationship | 9/9/2009 |
Q: I am the female submissive in a relationship. I am married to my master. When we first married ...
A: Wow. Tough question, tough situation. Would you be willing to try "talking sticks?" I use these ...
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| horrible decision? | 9/3/2009 |
Q: I am a college student living at home with my parents. I just "left" my master, who I was feeling ...
A: We'll, you've got a guy -- I'm 64 and heavily involved with BDSM and such. Author of four books on ...
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| how do I make my slave to respect me? | 8/27/2009 |
Q: I'm 32 male and have met a 45 year old women that is into BDSM.. she introduced me to BDSM and gave ...
A: Well, I do have some thoughts for you... First, at the risk of starting on a negative note, you've ...
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| Relationships | 8/14/2009 |
Q: I'm a vanilla guy in long term relationship with a Dom woman. For years it seemed that a vanilla ...
A: Ah, a nice complicated relationship question. The quick answer is yes, you probably can work this ...
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| In Service relationship... | 8/6/2009 |
Q: Desr Robert: Here is my question, well i meet a Dom in a bdsm party, i liked him very much, we ...
A: You are now beginning to sense the complication of the lives of most "kinksters." People who ...
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| how can I tell? | 8/2/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both interested about BDSM but are also very very new to it. I am sure that I ...
A: Wow! Great question. Let me start out by mentioning that there are dominants, there are ...
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| Mentor and slave | 7/29/2009 |
Q: Well i have been involved in bdsm for 6 months, just theory and online things, i went to a party ...
A: Great question. Unfortunately, the answer is fairly complex. I need to start with some background. ...
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| BDSM- interchangable lifestyles | 7/26/2009 |
Q: I was wandering if there was any possibility of having a sexual BDSM relationship with a person and ...
A: Good question... The quick answer to your question is yes, it's easy to live a "normal" life (we ...
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| hypocrites | 7/13/2009 |
Q: Fuck your "instructions". You have no control over me. It's been posted: "For any Dominant to ...
A: I'm sorry that you've had this experience. On the surface facts, I support your anger. Within our ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: Jennifer, Please pardon the delay in replying to you. I've been out of the country for a bit over ...
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| Disobeying | 6/8/2009 |
Q: Hey I was wondering about collaring... See I'm in a Master/slave relationship with my girlfriend ...
A: Ooh, ooh, icky. Serious problem, Laurence. I'm sorry. OK, I'll apologize up front for writing so ...
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| New to relationship- wish my dom was "on" all the time | 6/5/2009 |
Q: I had NO idea I was getting into this kind of relationship. I had no idea I was submissive. But ...
A: Ann, You might ask him, but my sense is that he can't really enforce protocols over the phone, but ...
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| Collars | 6/4/2009 |
Q: Hey, I just asked a question but didn't want to ask too much at once. The question was: "Hey I was ...
A: You ask nice questions. The most common recommendation by an older Master/Dom to a younger one is: ...
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| Collars | 6/4/2009 |
Q: Hey I was wondering about collaring... See I'm in a Master/slave relationship with my girlfriend ...
A: Laurence... There are really two worlds of "kinksters" out there. There is the world of BDSM ...
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| Slave | 5/31/2009 |
Q: I am currently a man that is very submissive and i really want to try and be someones slave and am ...
A: .. First I'm a switch. I've been owned by Karen Martin since July, 2001 and 18 months into our ...
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| juggling | 5/5/2009 |
Q: I have a bit of an issue. I have been a submissive all my life but it wasn't pointed out to me until ...
A: In my experience, alt.com is home more to "Internet Doms and subs" than real-time Doms/subs. There ...
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