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| I want something I'm not sure I can have | 7/26/2009 |
Q: I'm 20 years old. my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years- since we were 14. He ...
A: .. I'm glad my earlier response was of some help to you. I hope I can help you continue to sort ...
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| pleasing my master | 7/25/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both relatively new to the lifestyle. We both have had an huge interest and ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| I want something I'm not sure I can have | 7/25/2009 |
Q: I'm 20 years old. my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years- since we were 14. He ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Is it time for me to move on | 7/17/2009 |
Q: Greetings and thank you for looking at my question. This one has been in a bdsm relationship online ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Burden to my Master | 7/10/2009 |
Q: My bf and i have recently started the journey of letting, what we believe are our true natures, out ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I do beg your pardon for my delay in answering ...
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| first time as a slave | 7/10/2009 |
Q: i am a master and will be having my slave soon we have talked about everything of our relation what ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I do apologize for taking so long to respond, ...
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| crying | 7/8/2009 |
Q: First a little bit about us….into what some would call soft bdsm, fun mainly reserved for the ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I do apologize for my delay in answering it; my ...
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| Introduction and Ownership | 7/6/2009 |
Q: While I have loads of fantasies and ideas roiling around in my brain, I have absolutely no ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I do apologize for my delay in answering it; my ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| My husband and bdsm | 6/21/2009 |
Q: I can't get enough bdsm treatment from my husband. He's afraid of hurting me. But I want it so bad. ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| I'm back for more advice... | 6/12/2009 |
Q: Our time apart is so hard on me i truely beleive i'm addicted to him the love he gives me how he ...
A: .. Again, I'm glad that my words were of help to you. I'm sure your Sir will be very pleased that ...
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| I'm back for more advice... | 6/11/2009 |
Q: Our time apart is so hard on me i truely beleive i'm addicted to him the love he gives me how he ...
A: .. Thank you for the follow-up question. I'm pleased that my earlier answer was of help to you, ...
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| movie help!!!! | 6/10/2009 |
Q: do you know if there is a sight that we can find a movie and or DVD of a female sub being trained by ...
A: .. I can't really recommend ANY movie or DVD as serious instruction or education regarding the BDSM ...
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| Learning about Gorean Lifestyle | 6/10/2009 |
Q: this has probably been asked before but I've been looking everywhere I cant find anywhere to give me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| help !!!!! | 6/9/2009 |
Q: me and my wife/submissive are new to this..and i have ben reading all that i can get my hands on ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| free sites | 6/6/2009 |
Q: .just wondering if you know of any free sites for bdsm; we are a straight couple seeking a female ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Exclusively Collared | 6/4/2009 |
Q: I'm very happily and exclusively involved with a beautiful and experienced female dom (domme?) who ...
A: Sir... I am happy that my words were of some help to you. I'll try to respond to your further ...
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| Exclusively Collared | 6/4/2009 |
Q: I'm very happily and exclusively involved with a beautiful and experienced female dom (domme?) who ...
A: Sir... Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you ...
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| subspace followup | 5/29/2009 |
Q: Firstly, thank you for your answers to my questions all the way back on Nov 25 & 26, 2007! Again, I ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I am happy that my advice was helpful before, ...
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| Two Switchers | 5/27/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I are currently looking at ownership status but our problem is we are both ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Long distance BDSM | 5/6/2009 |
Q: My wife and I are separated due to her job for the next two months. We want to continue our journey ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| slave whos master wants to act dominate with some one else | 4/27/2009 |
Q: My master wants me to have sex with someone else so he can watch which is not a problem but he wants ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| submissive | 4/24/2009 |
Q: i am new to all of this and i really need some advice on some learning sites on how to be better ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Finding a live in slave | 4/21/2009 |
Q: We are having a difficult time finding s live in slave. We are not serious hard core and maybe more ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| BDSM Start | 4/10/2009 |
Q: me and my girl are facinated by the whole bondage experience. We have done the simple tie up bed kit ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| The hidden dangers of subspace | 4/8/2009 |
Q: I really need to talk to someone knowledgeable about this, I met a women on a pick up site 4 months ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Submissivness | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I just resently became a sub to a Master here online about 1 month ago, a lot has happened in this ...
A: .. I'm glad I was able to help you with my previous answer. It's also fortunate that I have the ...
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| Submissivness | 4/6/2009 |
Q: I just resently became a sub to a Master here online about 1 month ago, a lot has happened in this ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Am I a Dom | 3/17/2009 |
Q: grew up being taken to secrete meetings, Father was a dom, mom a sub. My sisters had to call me sir ...
A: .. Thank you for submitting your question. I do apologize for the delay in answering it, but for ...
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| How can I tell if an online Master is a real or fake? | 3/10/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend appears to have become a Gorean Master online. I mean no disrespect to your lifestyle- ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| slave training | 3/3/2009 |
Q: how busty female women slaves should be trained
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Co-ownership scenarios | 2/27/2009 |
Q: I am curious about being Co-owned by a married couple. I see alot of contracts that only specify ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| mono sub in poly relationship | 2/12/2009 |
Q: I am a 20 year old American submissive in a long distance relationship with my 21 year old dominant ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| sub/dom relationships | 2/12/2009 |
Q: i am only just realising that i am a sub but dont know much about it all.i need to defne the ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers that you ...
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| can u help me? | 2/11/2009 |
Q: how do i learn the difference between my wants and my needs?Sir gives me everything i need and yet i ...
A: .. Thanks for having the faith in me to come back for more. Firstly, the symbolism behind such a ...
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| shocked | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I've recently started dating a man and we've really hit it off. He's handsome, smart, funny, rich ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Children | 2/8/2009 |
Q: I am the step mother of 4 wonderful children and my husband and I now have custody of them due to ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the solutions you ...
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| Literature, information | 2/6/2009 |
Q: any help is great! I am young and very interested in the D/S lifestyle. I’ve been reading about it ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the information you ...
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| can u help me? | 2/6/2009 |
Q: how do i learn the difference between my wants and my needs?Sir gives me everything i need and yet i ...
A: .. Thank you for your question. I'm glad that my earlier answer was of some help, and I'm ...
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| can u help me? | 2/6/2009 |
Q: how do i learn the difference between my wants and my needs?Sir gives me everything i need and yet i ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Advice on First Meeting with a new Slave | 1/28/2009 |
Q: And thanks for reading. I have been an online domme for about 18 months and adore it. I am now ready ...
A: Ma'am... Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you ...
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| How to be a dom | 1/21/2009 |
Q: I am Very new to all of this. My girlfriend say's she wants me to do the master/slave dom/sub type ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| thinking about going from submissive to slave | 1/20/2009 |
Q: Yes I have been in training for being submissive and my trainer said there really is not much more I ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Sir/boy dynamic | 1/17/2009 |
Q: Greetings, and thank you for being here. i recently decided to act on my feelings of wanting to be a ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| the dom/sub mindset , being the best dom i can be | 1/16/2009 |
Q: i have recently met a girl on second life that has become my sub and she is thrilled. it is new for ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Names for partner | 1/15/2009 |
Q: I am a submissive female, 22, and I have recently engaged in a D/s relationship after being away ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the solution you are ...
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| How to submit? | 1/14/2009 |
Q: I am extremely new and naive to the D&s relationship.In my public life i am a brassy confident ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| sub-space | 1/13/2009 |
Q: I wrote to you before about what you described as a "sub drop." You mostly answered my question, but ...
A: .. I'm glad to hear that I was able to be of help to you before. I hope I can do the same thing ...
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| Masters/slaves | 1/10/2009 |
Q: My ex Shelby, use to be a submissive. Now to my greatest dissapointment has turned against ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| How can you start the conversation if your a sub? | 1/7/2009 |
Q: I have been married for eight years and we have a great sex life. When I met my future husband, I ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| how do u meet people in a M/s community online | 1/5/2009 |
Q: i was wondering if there are any M/s websites.for men/boys/guys because everywhere i go i cant seem ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Help i dont know what to do | 1/2/2009 |
Q: Not that i judge or fear it i just have never had an interest in it.The reason i am here is that my ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Begging Techniques | 12/27/2008 |
Q: I am hoping with your experience and background you can help me. I have recently entered into a ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Early BDSM relationship. | 12/24/2008 |
Q: I have come to you because i read another answer you gave, and i thought it was excellent, and very ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question, and also for your kind compliment. I hope I can ...
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| for my slave | 12/20/2008 |
Q: I used my slave as a foot stool and she said it bothered her so I tried to explain the honor I felt ...
A: .. Thank you for your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking for. ...
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| A Newish BDSM Relationship | 12/20/2008 |
Q: so i have been going out with this girl for a couple years and we have just started to get into BDSM ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| forced homosexuality | 12/14/2008 |
Q: I am submissive man to my dminant loing temr partner. I enjoy being her slave and we enjoysex from ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| legal stuff | 12/4/2008 |
Q: .its Me again. I get paranoid sometimes, so let Me tell you this and see if you think it is legal. ...
A: .. I have read all of your follow-up letters, and will try to summarize my response to each of ...
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| legal stuff | 12/4/2008 |
Q: .its Me again. I get paranoid sometimes, so let Me tell you this and see if you think it is legal. ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me again. I hope I can help you as much as I did before. First of all, ...
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| dominance | 12/3/2008 |
Q: .pretty soon I will be getting a slave here as a live in. so, in order to establish dominance ...
A: Sir... Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you ...
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| New to being dominated... | 12/2/2008 |
Q: I am not in a relationship; but have been fooling around with a guy for 7 months now. I dont feel I ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Being a good Dom | 12/1/2008 |
Q: I am in a sub/dom relationship where I am the dom. I have a very willing sub and we have agreed we ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| public signaling of bdsm | 11/27/2008 |
Q: Any suggestions on items I can wear in public which signal my availability as a bdsm submissive? ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. A very easy way to signify your status would be ...
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| New and slightly unsure | 11/25/2008 |
Q: And hi to A/anyone else that drops in to see the question! I'm sure you can help me out with the ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find what you are looking ...
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| New experinces | 11/24/2008 |
Q: as you can guess from the subject I'm knew to this and so is my partner. She mentioned it as ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Looking | 11/24/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 and looking for a master but I'm not quite sure how to find one. Especially one that would ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Collaring a slave vs. collaring a submissive | 11/22/2008 |
Q: greetings~ in your opinion, what are the differences between collaring a slave versus collaring a ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Trouble accepting punishment | 11/21/2008 |
Q: A quick background – i have known my Master for about 5 years, we have been together for about 1 ½ ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Finding a Master | 11/20/2008 |
Q: How can I find a Master? I live in the San Diego, CA area and am looking for someone safe to submit ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find what you are looking ...
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| Vaginal bleeding | 11/18/2008 |
Q: On Friday, I was fisted anally for the first time. Now, on Monday, I am bleeding vaginally. First ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can provide the help you are looking ...
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| Femdom wedding | 11/16/2008 |
Q: My Fancie and I would like to have a Femdom wedding service that is a legal wedding can you point me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I'm afraid that I can't give you any specific ...
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| D/s relationship questions | 11/14/2008 |
Q: I very recently (3 days ago) had my first D/s experience with a very friendly and professional Dom. ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| fear | 11/13/2008 |
Q: I have been a sub for over 5 years, 3 of them recently with someone I thought I would always be ...
A: .. I'm sorry that Master Shadow is unavailable to answer your question, but perhaps I can be of ...
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| Learning Domination | 11/11/2008 |
Q: I am an inexperienced Domme, training-wise. While I could possibly be classified as a switch, I ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| sub-space | 11/11/2008 |
Q: I am a sub, fairly new to bdsm. I just moved away from my Dom, and so we're doing the online thing. ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| sites | 11/11/2008 |
Q: .we are a couple; I am Dom and she is sub. we are seeking a female slave to join us at home. since ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Should i confess my true feelings for him? | 11/10/2008 |
Q: I hope you will be able to help me with the situation i found myself in recently. A relative guy ...
A: .. I'm not sure why you posted this question to me, since it doesn't really fall within the ...
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| Living the lifestyle and researching more... | 11/9/2008 |
Q: I am a Sadist, and have been in the lifestyle now for 3 yrs. I currently own 3 slaves (1 Transgender ...
A: Ma'am... First of all, I do apologize for the delay in answering your question. Apparently, the ...
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| Gorean, and links | 11/8/2008 |
Q: ...my wife and I own 2 slave couples (4 slaves). my wife has become more submissive and now wishes ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Conflict within myself | 11/3/2008 |
Q: First I'd like to say thanks for taking the time to read my long & lengthy question and try help me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Slavery feels so right | 10/27/2008 |
Q: Good Day arani_CsA, This involves a few questions, and is nearly tome length, so thank you for your ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| tit cutting | 10/11/2008 |
Q: my breast are 38dd and i have used needles, skews but have the earge to try a knife in my tit where ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Broken D/s relationship | 10/4/2008 |
Q: I recently got out of a six month relationship with a married Dom. His wife does not know about us ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| another sub? | 9/29/2008 |
Q: My master wants to get another slave, and I'm extremely jealous and worried that she might take my ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Want to be trained for my master | 9/29/2008 |
Q: Ok, here's the thing. I'm supposed to be 'in training' for my master, but it seems as though he's ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| life | 9/27/2008 |
Q: looking for a good spot to read about gorean and how it works that for you help
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| why isn't my MASTER allowing me to talk? | 9/18/2008 |
Q: I'm in a MASTER/slave relationship with someone who has been more than a friend for several years. ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| should i tell my master that I love him | 9/15/2008 |
Q: My Master and I have more than a D/s relationship... we work together... with him being the owner ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| how to keep a woman's heart | 9/1/2008 |
Q: ..it is a very nice service that you do! Obviously I am a guy. A Master for 15 yrs, but not now... ...
A: Sir... Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you ...
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| consentual slavery | 8/21/2008 |
Q: recently i have heard about a self-sale where a consenting slave was purchased by an owner...are you ...
A: .. i don't really have much knowledge of the details of such sales. Usually they are private ...
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| ready for a d/s relationship.. | 7/29/2008 |
Q: My perspective master has asked me on more than one occasion," Are you ready for a D/s ...
A: .. There are several different reasons why your Master might have been asking you such a thing. ...
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| meeting new friends. | 7/27/2008 |
Q: Where is a good place to meet subs to share stories and become friends with so that the transition ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| long distance | 7/16/2008 |
Q: well i am back for another question.After a rocky two weeks with my slave due to the long distance ...
A: Sir... Long-distance relationships of any kind are very difficult; those of the M/s kind even more ...
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| collar | 7/9/2008 |
Q: slave/girlfriend i have bin dominant all my life but do not have much experience in anything long ...
A: Sir... Thank You for coming to me with Your question. i hope i can help You find the answer You ...
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| peeing | 7/6/2008 |
Q: Master wants me to drink pee,it is a hard limit for me and Master wants to get me past them...can ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers that you ...
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| Rape and Breed | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I had a sub ask me if I was into rape and breed? What specifically is she referring to? Thanks!
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i have encountered people who enjoyed raping or ...
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| Support for a Christian in BDSM | 6/23/2008 |
Q: I am a single Christian woman. I have been succesful professionally, running a department for some ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you seek. ...
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| Dom/sub relationships | 6/16/2008 |
Q: Ok, first off I am SO new to this it isnt even funny. I am a smoking female who started doing shows ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| brat | 6/14/2008 |
Q: greetings kajira. this girl is a online kajira at the moment that has served a gorean Master though ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| My potential new sugar daddy has pee fetish and is submissive how can I please him? | 6/11/2008 |
Q: I am not very dominant but I do lean towards it verse being submissive. I am mostly a mutual lover ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| OnLine Mistress/submissive relationship | 5/31/2008 |
Q: Is there a place where a Pperson can go to see what things are possible within a OnLine BDSM ...
A: .. Thank you for clarifying your question. To be specific, I have never seen a list of on-line ...
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| OnLine Mistress/submissive relationship | 5/31/2008 |
Q: Is there a place where a Pperson can go to see what things are possible within a OnLine BDSM ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| relationship between my Sir and I | 5/23/2008 |
Q: Were can I find out the Ancient history of BDSM? I have met someone 2 years ago who introduced me to ...
A: .. I have studied medieval times quite a bit, in my vanilla life. From what I have read, slavery ...
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| relationship between my Sir and I | 5/22/2008 |
Q: Were can I find out the Ancient history of BDSM? I have met someone 2 years ago who introduced me to ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your question. I hope that I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| letters | 5/12/2008 |
Q: I have found a Dom that I absolutely adore, and I want to ask him to take me as his, but I have ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answer you are ...
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| How a person become interested in BDSM? | 5/1/2008 |
Q: How a person become interested in BDSM? From Birth? Environment? or Both of them? In my case. I did ...
A: .. You ask some questions that others in the lifestyle have asked for a very long time, and are ...
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| New Relationship | 4/24/2008 |
Q: Starting a new relationship, with a very submissive woman, I am a very dominant lover but have ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| affect on academics/work-reg., | 4/22/2008 |
Q: i'm a newbie, so pls oblige me. how does a bdsm relationship affect ur performance at work? ie ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| punishment in a LDR | 4/22/2008 |
Q: Greetings sister, my Master and i are currently dealing with being apart, and will reamain so for a ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answer you are ...
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| confusion | 3/25/2008 |
Q: I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| How to help him | 3/16/2008 |
Q: My husband sought a ld D/s relationship with someone online because he thought I would not be "into" ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| submissive learning | 3/8/2008 |
Q: I'm new to the BDSM lifestyle. My Master is an experienced Dom who brought me into it. However I am ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I do apologize for not answering it promptly, as ...
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| slave name | 3/7/2008 |
Q: I have a master and I've been ordered to come up with a slave name. Any suggestions? Something along ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I do apologize for not answering it right away, ...
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| D/s question | 3/1/2008 |
Q: ..I've been owned by my Master for a few years now...since I was 18. I'm 21 now He is 45. I'm ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Masters who train slaves for others. | 2/18/2008 |
Q: I've just read a Q/A dated 4/19/07 where you discuss Masters who train slaves for others. I've been ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| online bdsm and christians | 2/5/2008 |
Q: i am a 51 yr ole married female and i have been in online bdsm for past 12 yrs...my hubbie is ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| breast bondage | 1/25/2008 |
Q: i love tieing my tits up with string until they go numb and then plunging an exacto knife deep into ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| sub/master | 1/21/2008 |
Q: generally I'm the dominate one in relationships and in my life. but I'm in a relationship for the ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| New Sub | 1/20/2008 |
Q: My Dom and I are new to this and my master would like information on training an new slave, what ...
A: .. i don't mind at all your questions. i enjoy helping others discover the joy that i feel in my ...
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| New Sub | 1/20/2008 |
Q: My Dom and I are new to this and my master would like information on training an new slave, what ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| cbt orgasm | 1/14/2008 |
Q: My Mistress likes to do cbt play in our sessions which includes tight penis balls binding by cord ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answer you are ...
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| Advice for a new domme: dominating women | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I am a new domme and will be starting training this year. For the time being I will only be a domme ...
A: Ma'am... Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you ...
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| Collar Ritual | 12/30/2007 |
Q: Could you walk me through the collar ritual you went through? We may want to incorporate parts of it ...
A: .. I'm flattered that you want to borrow from our ritual, however after almost eight years my ...
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| Collar | 12/27/2007 |
Q: Can you go in detail in your collaring ritual? (to give an example of such a real life ritual)
A: .. My current Master and i met through a Christian BDSM message board, and conducted a ...
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| Gor Sessions | 12/25/2007 |
Q: What should a typical first time (real) Gor slave training session consist of? Could you walk me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question, and Merry Christmas! i'll try to help you find ...
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| i need some advice to help save my marriage | 12/16/2007 |
Q: I've been married since June and my partner and i have been together for over a year. Lately we've ...
A: .. You ask some good questions, and it's good to see that you are willing to work with your husband ...
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| bdsm | 12/14/2007 |
Q: Yes i have only known my Master for about 4 or 5 days.This is the first time that he has done that. ...
A: .. I don't know if your Master is one of these people, and I hope he's not. But, unfortunately, ...
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| being away from my Master | 12/14/2007 |
Q: i have just found another Master.my question is he lives in Mississippi and i live in Texas.we have ...
A: .. I gather that you have not been with this Master for very long. Has he ever done anything like ...
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| im a new dom.... | 12/10/2007 |
Q: well, i have a new girlfriend, and she is very much into the scene...ive always been interested, but ...
A: .. I'm glad I could be of help. Yes, being a Master can be a lot of fun, but it is also a lot of ...
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| im a new dom.... | 12/10/2007 |
Q: well, i have a new girlfriend, and she is very much into the scene...ive always been interested, but ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answer you are ...
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| want to submit | 12/10/2007 |
Q: I want some advice on how to approach someone I know who I think is a dom and I really want to be ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answer you are ...
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| being away from my Master | 12/8/2007 |
Q: i have just found another Master.my question is he lives in Mississippi and i live in Texas.we have ...
A: A lot of my friends use www.livejournal.com. It does have a feature that will allow you to limit ...
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| being away from my Master | 12/8/2007 |
Q: i have just found another Master.my question is he lives in Mississippi and i live in Texas.we have ...
A: .. Good question! I hope that I can help you find the answer that will help you. First of all, ...
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| Punishment at a Distance | 12/1/2007 |
Q: Alright... Here's the basic situation. My sub (I would describe her as a Gorean slave) has recently ...
A: Greetings, Sir... Thank you for addressing your question to me. I hope that I can help you find a ...
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| Achieving subspace | 11/26/2007 |
Q: --Please keep my email address PRIVATE Hi, I am relatively new to BDSM, and am a sub hoping to ...
A: again... You ask some very good questions, and I think it is very good that you are exploring these ...
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| Achieving subspace | 11/25/2007 |
Q: --Please keep my email address PRIVATE Hi, I am relatively new to BDSM, and am a sub hoping to ...
A: .. I have found that subspace is an intensely individual thing. What produces it in one point will ...
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| How to marry a dominant wife | 11/11/2007 |
Q: I am asking you this question because you are a very dominant women and will be able to give me some ...
A: Well, i suspect that if you make contact with one of the groups i listed, you may be able to find ...
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| How to marry a dominant wife | 11/9/2007 |
Q: I am asking you this question because you are a very dominant women and will be able to give me some ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. However, I must correct you on one point. I am ...
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| Help | 10/4/2007 |
Q: What is a Gorean slave? Am new to the scene but VERY interested in developing skills and enjoying. ...
A: .. Thanks for sending your question my way. I'll try to help you find out what you want to know. ...
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| Married and want to explore BDSM | 10/4/2007 |
Q: I do need some good advice. I have for a very long time not enjoyed sex with my husband. He is not ...
A: .. The BDSM lifestyle can indeed be very exciting and very fulfilling. There is a wide variety of ...
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| submissive contemplating slavery | 10/3/2007 |
Q: i have been a submissive for nearly 10 years (rw). i have been without a Master (my beloved Master ...
A: .. Thanks for sending me your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking ...
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| My girlfriend wants to be a slave. | 10/2/2007 |
Q: ..A week ago my girlfriend of 16mths told me that she's been participating in virtual reality game ...
A: .. There are several different questions in your letter, and I hope you'll pardon me if I answer ...
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| Finding real life gorean slaves | 9/19/2007 |
Q: I am a gorean master looking for a real life kajira/slave. Do you recommend any certain sites? ...
A: Greetings, Master.... This kajira earnestly hopes that she will be able to help You find what you ...
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| long distance s/m relationship | 9/16/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship, and he has recently expressed his ...
A: .. Thanks for sending your question my way. I'll try to help you find an answer that works for you ...
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| Just starting out with b/s | 9/13/2007 |
Q: My wife wants me to dom her totally! I'm looking for surgestions and how to keep her happy with ...
A: I’ll try to help you find an answer. The BDSM lifestyle is one that my husband and I enjoy very ...
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| sub social profile | 9/6/2007 |
Q: As my interests lay with sociology and psychology (not an expert though) I’d like to know what ...
A: I do recall, a few years ago, seeing a website with a questionnaire such as you mentioned, but I ...
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| slave training slowed to a crawl | 8/26/2007 |
Q: arani_CsA, i have been in slave training for a wonderful Master, but since i divulged to him about ...
A: .. Thanks for coming to me with your problem. I will do what I can to help you find a solution. ...
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| How do we extend our scenes? | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I am in a monogamous relationship with a wonderful woman. We both enjoy playing around with various ...
A: .. Thank you for an intersting and thought-provoking answer. However, I would like a little more ...
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| Burning out leading to brattiness? | 7/19/2007 |
Q: Greetings, arani_CsA, and thank you in advance for any help you might be able to give. My ...
A: .. Thanks for sending me your very good question. I'll do my best to give you the answer you're ...
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| Kids, commitment and BDSM | 7/4/2007 |
Q: I am curious about BDSM, however I am only interested in a long-term committed relationship with ...
A: .. You've asked a number of questions here, and I'll try to give each one of them my full ...
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| Change of mind .... | 5/29/2007 |
Q: I met my now wife a little over 4 years ago. During the courtship time, and actually one thing that ...
A: .. Thank you for a very interesting question. I will do my best to help you and your wife out. ...
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| So many qestions | 5/10/2007 |
Q: I am hoping you maybe able to help find some incite. I'm am a 20 year old female and have been in a ...
A: .. First of all, I want to tell you that you're not alone in your fears and your concerns regarding ...
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| sister slaves | 5/3/2007 |
Q: Arani can you tell me where on the internet that i can find a site that is just for slaves/subs? i ...
A: .. i have to say that i haven't seen all that many sites around the web just for slaves and subs. ...
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| Games for starters | 4/30/2007 |
Q: It seems that spanking is a big turn on for both my fiance (female) and I (The Secretary was a, um, ...
A: .. It's great that you and your fiance have discovered that you share a taste for, shall we say, ...
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| Strap ons | 4/29/2007 |
Q: I'm a male and I have a really big fantasy about my girlfriend using a strap on me.Everytime I try ...
A: .. I have a very simple answer to your question, but it may not be what you were hoping to hear. ...
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| Finding the right slave | 4/26/2007 |
Q: I am seeking a femnale slave for a rt 24/7. I have gotten several responses from the different ...
A: .. It is very possible to meet a Master or slave on line, through personal ads or in a chat room. ...
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| Online BDSM | 4/26/2007 |
Q: I was wondering about an online BDSM or Dom/sub relationship, such as suggestions for rules and ...
A: .. Some people will say that an on-line relationship isn't "real," that it's just fun and games. ...
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| Slave Naming | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I am very new to the scene. I am developing a BDSM relationship where I am the dominant. This will ...
A: .. Thank you for entrusting your question to me. I'll do what I can to help you find the answers ...
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| My wife wants to be a slave... but not with me? | 4/22/2007 |
Q: Where do we begin... Some background, my wife and I have been married for several years. We both ...
A: .. First of all, I want to say that I understand your confusion and concern, and that I hope I can ...
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| First Real slave | 4/19/2007 |
Q: I am a 43 year old novice BI Master. Just been involved in casual weekend kind of roles. I have been ...
A: Sir, for your kind words. I have actually encountered many Masters and slaves who do not enjoy S/m ...
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| First Real slave | 4/18/2007 |
Q: I am a 43 year old novice BI Master. Just been involved in casual weekend kind of roles. I have been ...
A: .. Yes, Sir, I have actually heard of Masters who specialize in training slaves for others. And, ...
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| using butt plug day long | 4/14/2007 |
Q: is it dangerous to use butt plug day long.my one is mide size.
A: .. First of all, please be aware that the advice that I offer here is not based on experience ...
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| info | 3/20/2007 |
Q: can you tell me where online that i can find out about how a slave prepares her body.my Master wants ...
A: .. This question is more complex than it may seem. Each Master will have His own preferences on ...
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| question | 11/29/2006 |
Q: my name is Steve. I am a 29 year old submissive male who's into soft bondage only. I am not into ...
A: .. Going to a "munch," or a meeting of folks who are part of the BDSM lifestyle, is an excellent ...
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| spirituality in slavery | 11/26/2006 |
Q: First thank you for answering my question about long distance relationships. It helped immensely. I ...
A: .. i'm glad i was able to help you earlier; i hope i can do so again. Please do bear in mind that ...
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| seeking slavegirl | 11/2/2006 |
Q: .I currently own a slave, and am looking for either a sub or slavegirl for here at home. I am on ...
A: Greetings... Thank You for asking my opinion on this. i have never been to either of the sites You ...
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| gf giving mixed signs | 10/27/2006 |
Q: im into bondage and such but im not too sure if my girlfriend is or not. ive been going out with her ...
A: .. It can be very daunting to admit to a lover that you like kinky sex, or that you're "into" BDSM ...
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| need to know | 8/30/2006 |
Q: haloo my name is alma iam a happy girl with my boyfreind and our relation is perfect, it just ...
A: Well, I'm not sure what I could tell you that I didn't tell your boyfriend yesterday, but I'll give ...
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| sexual problem | 8/27/2006 |
Q: i love my girlfriend to much but she is so soft on the bed and iam not iam into foot fetish and ...
A: After reading this question and the one following it, I have a suspicion that they were written by ...
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| spanked | 8/12/2006 |
Q: my girlfriend came home early 1 day last mounth and caught me masterbating, i was in the living room ...
A: It sounds like you've discovered that your girlfriend enjoys dominating you, and that she has a ...
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| Master/slavee relat | 8/7/2006 |
Q: Which is the proper ankle to place a 'anklet' on a slave to show ownership
A: .. When I was role-playing in the Gorean chat rooms, we used to wear slave bells on the left ankle. ...
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| Arco Training | 7/26/2006 |
Q: Greetings, This one has heard mention something called arco training in relations to M/s, could you ...
A: .. i have to confess that i had not heard of what you mentioned, so i did a web search. The only ...
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| Long distance M/s relationships | 6/19/2006 |
Q: I have belonged to Master for 5 years. Most of that time in a commited M/s relationship and i have ...
A: .. First of all, please allow me to commend you on your devotion to your Master. Being a ...
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