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About XR
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Expertise
If it involves gear I can answer it. Whether you're talking basic sex toys, restraints(leather, steel, etc....), electrosex, fucking machines, butt plugs, or any other kinky practice that involves gear. I can answer it.

Experience
I'm here representing www.eXtremeRestraints.com, we're one of the biggest bondage gear and fetish supply retailers on the internet. We spend a lot of effort looking for the right products to carry in our store, so we should be able to answer any questions. In short, we have a big warehouse full of just about any equipment you might want to ask about.

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Questions Answered By Expert  XR 
In Category  BDSM

SubjectDate Asked

chastity.1/1/2009
  Q: i've been interested in chastity for quite a while now (both self chasting and with a partner) and ...
  A: There's a reason that commercial chastity devices like the CB6000 are as pricey as they are. There ...
castration12/25/2008
  Q: I am 45 year old man that is slave to my wife. I am wearing chastity devices all the time and never ...
  A: Here's my problem with you getting castrated... That's going to mess up your hormonal balance in a ...
collar12/22/2008
  Q: i am looking for a collar/necklace to be worn in public that to the untrained eye would be ...
  A: This is purely an aesthetic question, so my opinion is no better than any others and it depends on ...
Strap That Ejaculates11/29/2008
  Q: I Seen That You Answered A Female Question About Straps That Ejaculate But They Are All White The ...
  A: Alright, so you're looking for a black ejaculating cock. I'd like to say that I have exactly what ...
dildos, electro and HIV risk11/24/2008
  Q: Recently I saw a dominatrix who I had seen before. I have read some things about dildos and HIV ...
  A: Unfortunately, electrosex and safe sex don't go hand in hand. You can't put a condom over an ...
chastity belts- maintanance11/14/2008
  Q: ok, i'v been searching online for days trying to find an answer weather its possible to go to the ...
  A: Sorry for the late response. In short, no, female chastity belts aren't a good choice for long ...
Leather and Latex Care9/15/2008
  Q: I have a couple of new leather and latex/rubber toys. The leather ones are fist mits and a muzzle ...
  A: I hate to say it that leather and latex aren't known for ease of cleaning. There are half a ...
c/b devise question9/15/2008
  Q: XR hello: Are you familiar with an item by Bareback Underwear known as the Meat Packer? I ask as I ...
  A: You are so freakin' lucky. I checked all the usual kinky suspects for the meat packer, and they all ...
When Master wants me to switch and Domme Him...9/12/2008
  Q: i am currently a sub in training to my Dom who is a bi/switch. For His pleasure, He wants me to ...
  A: This is a tough question. You can't perhaps check his browser history to see what he might be into, ...
Fucking machine for my life partner7/22/2008
  Q: I am a 24 yearold man who wishes to please my boyfriend. He likes it when I hook up 9volt batteeries ...
  A: I'd go toy shopping, and try to find some new and interesting things to do together. New is always ...
Buying sex toys in India7/15/2008
  Q: How do you manage to supply toys to India? what if I order online and the toys are confiscated by ...
  A: Unfortunately, eXtremeRestraints.com doesn't have the leverage to instill a reasonable attitude in ...
focusing5/26/2008
  Q: How or where does one go to learn to focus? Master said that i need to learn to focus soley on him,i ...
  A: Yeah, you could go look this up on your own, but perhaps your master needs to give less vague ...
How a person become interested in BDSM?5/4/2008
  Q: How a person become interested in BDSM? From Birth? Environment? or Both of them? In my case. I did ...
  A: I'm fairly certain that you can't change a person's sexuality. You can draw out what's already there ...
How a person become interested in BDSM?5/1/2008
  Q: How a person become interested in BDSM? From Birth? Environment? or Both of them? In my case. I did ...
  A: Simple, you just have to be bit by someone who's already into BDSM, and like it. Seriously ...
ball gag3/25/2008
  Q: My Dom and I bought a ball gag, which I am VERY excited to try out when I see him next (we do the ...
  A: My first thought on the proper wear of ball gags is that the strap is going to migrate to the ...
3D poser art bdsm frame3/22/2008
  Q: i saw a cool x shaped bdsm frame design in a computer generated 3d poser art picture, it was like a ...
  A: The truth about the fetish equipment industry is that much of it is made by craftsmen. The materials ...
Strap-on dildo's3/16/2008
  Q: i have a question, my girlfriend and I have been trying ou different attachmentd for her strap-on, ...
  A: Actually, at our store we sell several ejaculating dildos. As they have balls they should be harness ...
Armbinders/Singlegloves/Monogloves2/10/2008
  Q: I have been searching the web high and low for a place I can purchase an arm binder such as the one ...
  A: Honestly, I was stumped. Then I switched around my search terms and found the people I believe to be ...
injections1/26/2008
  Q: is it safe to inject water into my penis
  A: I am not a doctor. I'm going to discourage this. I could be wrong, but I see some issues. There's ...
penis bondage1/25/2008
  Q: i bind my penis with elastic hair bands.how long should i leave my penis bound up
  A: Have you ever heard the story about how some kids put a rubber band around a cat's tail and a week ...
butt plug1/13/2008
  Q: I recently started dating someone. Last night he told me it was time for me to experience what turns ...
  A: I don't know the exact plug you were using and how it's shaped which can have a lot to do with how ...
Switches and the sharing of toys1/10/2008
  Q: I realize I have left this rather late but I was hoping I could get your input on something. My ...
  A: This is a little late. Sorry, I've been away from the computer for a while. I can't give you a ...
Knife play1/4/2008
  Q: I had this girlfriend for 6 weeks, and we were pretty good friends before we entered into a sexual ...
  A: The S&M community people that I know would have a fit if they heard about the behavior of your ...
nipple clamps12/3/2007
  Q: My husband is my submissive and I love to use nipple clamps as punishment. I use devices like Binder ...
  A: Being that this is your husband's nipples in question, a bit more recklessness might be permissible, ...
anal penetration11/2/2007
  Q: Recently my partner has been using dildo's or dong's on me it seems that the larger as in thicker ...
  A: I was really glad to get your question. Since eXtremeRestraints.com sells a lot of huge dildos, and ...
homemade male chasitity10/30/2007
  Q: I always wanted a chastity devise for myself but never wanted to spend the money for one. I was ...
  A: I'm gonna say no. You can look at some designs in our store at eXtremeRestraints.com, and then try ...
locking ankle braclet10/2/2007
  Q: i want a ankle braclet for my husband that locks with a small lock. I also want a custome engraving ...
  A: Over at eXtreme Restraints, we sell locking cuffs and collars, but not locking bracelets. This is ...
chastity belts9/13/2007
  Q: Is there a store i can go into to buy a chastity belt? I really don't like buying over the internet. ...
  A: I don't really know. Something so specialized is hard to sell in a particular geographic location. ...
Online?!!9/9/2007
  Q: I have constraints which do not allow me to have an rl BDSM life. The best I can think of is an ...
  A: Sorry for taking so long to answer your question. I'm going to refer you to collarme.com. It's free ...
Butt plugs8/31/2007
  Q: I take a antidepresant called CELEXA - unfortunately, one of the main side effects is that it ...
  A: Alright, I'm an employee of www.eXtremeRestraints.com. We carry a number of products intended for ...
Collar Necklaces8/10/2007
  Q: My master wants to collar me & has asked that I look for a necklace online for which we will ...
  A: This is a crazy hard question. There are a million different vanilla jewelry sites selling necklaces ...
traveling with a collar7/27/2007
  Q: This will be my first time to travel wearing a collar, apart from my SIR. It's a metal collar. I ...
  A: I don't know the particulars of your travel plan, and I'd say that you should treat it as a fashion ...
Cupping7/23/2007
  Q: I received a cupping set as a gift, and I would like to know where I can get info on its use in BDSM ...
  A: I'd check here first: http://www.extremerestraints.com/cupping-set_72.html. Check the product ...
butt plugs,dildos and other toys6/29/2007
  Q: so can u suggest any alternative household thing that can be used as a butt plug and also suggest ...
  A: First, off. We ship sex toys to India. I'm with www.eXtremeRestraints.com, and it looks like we've ...
Advice!6/3/2007
  Q: I want something to play with! My boyfriend isn't very interested in sex - I assume we've just been ...
  A: So he's 25 or older, you're 18, and you've been together so long that it's possible he might be ...
Welting5/5/2007
  Q: after some scene play last night with my Master I have been left with some very prominent welts and ...
  A: I ran this question past a switch who has a lot of experience on both sides of the spanking bench... ...
Dominant to a "pay pig"?4/24/2007
  Q: . My new man has admitted he would like me to take on a dominant bossy role, and use him as my pay ...
  A: Did he say "pay pig" or "pain pig" there is a huge difference. A pay pig is someone who buys things ...
sitting pee5/24/2006
  Q: do you know any way to make a male have to sit to pee. for example harnesses or hoses. do you know ...
  A: francine, I first want to assure you it is entirely possible for a male to sit to pee. Second, I ...

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