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| slave auctions | 6/27/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: are there any actual slave auctions anywhere,where i could "buy" a slave who has put herself up for ...
A: While I do know there is a site called slaveauction.com(Or at least there was at my last visit), the ...
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| i'm afraid we're both subs. | 6/27/2009 | awhitecloud |
Q: i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. Before him i was collared to a very abusive ...
A: okay can you think on something as well have him think on this? What if you both have the same Dom ...
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| when to coller | 6/27/2009 | awhitecloud |
Q: how long does a Master usually talk to a sub before he collars her and is there any rules what to ...
A: a collar is like a wedding ring there is no set time in which a Dom will give one to a sub, it will ...
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| hello again | 6/27/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: i have another question, i was wondering how can i slave and a master have a relationship if the ...
A: In short, yes you are missing a lot darling, but in one sense it might be good. When one is new it ...
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| questions abought slaves or sub | 6/25/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: ok so i am a learning master for my sub/slave i am working on hre being honist abought her feelings ...
A: She is doing that thing called topping from the bottom. You are the Master, not her. She either ...
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| Christianity and D/s | 6/24/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: Good afternoon, this is probably a strange question but I wish to ask it anyway. I am a Christian ...
A: There are a good many groups on the Internet, like: www.christiansandbdsm.com ...
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| Not sure if new Boyfriend is lying about emotions and BDSM | 6/24/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I've been dating a guy a little over and month now, and I'm not sure what to think at this point. ...
A: You are not overreacting. People in this lifestyle are hardwired so if he's looking for this and ...
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| understanding a sub ????? | 6/24/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: me and my wife she bing the sub .have tryed swinging in the past .and i thought we had moved on but ...
A: Hell there DOM Well, since you are the dominant person you set the rules and you know that this is ...
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| Bdsm resorts | 6/24/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: I am recently new to this. My partner and I have a long distance relationship.We are looking for ...
A: Unknown to me if specifically there are BDSM resorts per se in Michigan And/Or Tennessee. However, ...
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| one-time domination | 6/22/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: I'm a sub married male, whose wife is not interested in it, and I'm getting together with a good ...
A: Best option if to talk it out. Communicate. See what each like, and have in common. See the ...
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| Being emotional | 6/22/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: slavywavy- Hi i am coming back into the lifestyle after being with a very abusive Dom put me off of ...
A: Are emotions normal directly after a scene? Oh yes hun, they are very normal and it is completely ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: http://www.ne-ds.org/home.htm That's the website you need to go to and join that group. Go to some ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: You need to join a local group so that he will know he's not the only one and you two aren't the ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Robert Rubel |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: Jennifer, Please pardon the delay in replying to you. I've been out of the country for a bit over ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: I would say that the distinction here for BOTH OF YOU would be to keep sex play as play and ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: Explain that this is an inner need of yours, and that to ignore it, and pretend it doesn't exist ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | DarkDivah |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: I STRONGLY suggest that you find a kink aware professional to help your husband deal with the issues ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: "I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline ...
A: Darling Jennifer Thank you for shring your fetish and how things have gone for you and your ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | awhitecloud |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: Jennifer A lot of Dom's can not punish the ones they love. It is hard to be stern with them. It ...
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| my Sir is sending mixed messages | 6/21/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: Three years ago, i met a great man and W/we went out on a couple of dates. Things were so amazing ...
A: Is this situation common in BDSM? No it isn't. When you want someone to dominate and control you, ...
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| curious | 6/21/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: I've seeing this guy and so far we have a good relationship. He's older than me and has done the ...
A: It is many things to many people, and to try here to explain it all would take too much time, and ...
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| My husband and bdsm | 6/21/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: I can't get enough bdsm treatment from my husband. He's afraid of hurting me. But I want it so bad. ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| help cb 6000 | 6/21/2009 | awhitecloud |
Q: Welcome Please help. I am Lukas 28 years old and I have come from Polish. A few days ago I bought ...
A: okay, I went on line and have researched all I can find on this device. I did not find that any ...
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| try and buy | 6/20/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: .was wondering what the term try and buy means in this lifestyle. just got an e mail from a slave ...
A: While I am not familiar with the term, it would seem to me to be an invitation to try out the slave ...
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| need some advise | 6/17/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: i just got a 3-Prong Anal Speculum to use on my slave to help stretch and keep her open other then ...
A: Jello! Flavor is Your choice, but make sure the coloring in it doesn't give a migraine to the ...
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| The Come Down? | 6/17/2009 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I got this email from a new submissive that I'm training...I would like to help her thru what I here ...
A: Mr. Brown, The two of you need to talk. Your submissive needs some reassurance. It seems like this ...
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| The come down? | 6/17/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I got this email from a new submissive that I'm training...I would like to help her thru what I here ...
A: She's got the right mindset, you just need to give her some instruction on what you want her to do ...
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| Kuffs | 6/16/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: I was searching for the website Kuffs and castlerealm when I came across your Q&A on castlerealm so ...
A: All I get when I go there is a Logo for Gefin. Your guess is as good as mine, friend, but W/we hope ...
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| newly sub | 6/15/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: I a sub, and I was just wondering how do i go about learning about the BDSM lifestyle. I am ...
A: Welcome and happy journey to you. You can join online networking sites like alt.com, bondage.com, ...
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| qestion on and abought adult movies | 6/14/2009 | DarkDivah |
Q: me and my wife/sub are looking for an adult movie we both have looked and looked at sights and we ...
A: Sean there are no end of adult movie sites that cater to BDSM and Fetish Google search using BDSM ...
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| I'm back for more advice... | 6/12/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: Our time apart is so hard on me i truely beleive i'm addicted to him the love he gives me how he ...
A: .. Again, I'm glad that my words were of help to you. I'm sure your Sir will be very pleased that ...
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| bdsm/feminization | 6/11/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: Me and my girlfriend are curious as to why I enjoy and feel the need to dress as a woman even to the ...
A: A light enema would clean you out, and prepare you for anal play with your Mistress. Use something ...
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| Vanilla with a Dom | 6/11/2009 | DarkDivah |
Q: Please could you help me. I am in a relationship with a dom, we have been together for five years. I ...
A: Sometimes when we're at the end of the tether all we can do is let go and start doing what needs to ...
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| I'm back for more advice... | 6/11/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: Our time apart is so hard on me i truely beleive i'm addicted to him the love he gives me how he ...
A: .. Thank you for the follow-up question. I'm pleased that my earlier answer was of help to you, ...
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| movie help!!!! | 6/10/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: do you know if there is a sight that we can find a movie and or DVD of a female sub being trained by ...
A: .. I can't really recommend ANY movie or DVD as serious instruction or education regarding the BDSM ...
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| Collaring and BDSM | 6/10/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: Ok well me and my love have been kind of dabbling in to the pet and master relationship and we want ...
A: I would suggest HouseofCollars.com, which has a fine selection of 24/7 collars that are waterproof, ...
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| Learning about Gorean Lifestyle | 6/10/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: this has probably been asked before but I've been looking everywhere I cant find anywhere to give me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| help !!!!! | 6/9/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: me and my wife/submissive are new to this..and i have ben reading all that i can get my hands on ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| Disobeying | 6/8/2009 | Robert Rubel |
Q: Hey I was wondering about collaring... See I'm in a Master/slave relationship with my girlfriend ...
A: Ooh, ooh, icky. Serious problem, Laurence. I'm sorry. OK, I'll apologize up front for writing so ...
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