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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| slave auctions | 6/27/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: are there any actual slave auctions anywhere,where i could "buy" a slave who has put herself up for ... A: While I do know there is a site called slaveauction.com(Or at least there was at my last visit), the ... | ||
| i'm afraid we're both subs. | 6/27/2009 | awhitecloud |
| Q: i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. Before him i was collared to a very abusive ... A: okay can you think on something as well have him think on this? What if you both have the same Dom ... | ||
| when to coller | 6/27/2009 | awhitecloud |
| Q: how long does a Master usually talk to a sub before he collars her and is there any rules what to ... A: a collar is like a wedding ring there is no set time in which a Dom will give one to a sub, it will ... | ||
| hello again | 6/27/2009 | Slavywavy |
| Q: i have another question, i was wondering how can i slave and a master have a relationship if the ... A: In short, yes you are missing a lot darling, but in one sense it might be good. When one is new it ... | ||
| questions abought slaves or sub | 6/25/2009 | CougarDomme |
| Q: ok so i am a learning master for my sub/slave i am working on hre being honist abought her feelings ... A: She is doing that thing called topping from the bottom. You are the Master, not her. She either ... | ||
| Christianity and D/s | 6/24/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: Good afternoon, this is probably a strange question but I wish to ask it anyway. I am a Christian ... A: There are a good many groups on the Internet, like: www.christiansandbdsm.com ... | ||
| Not sure if new Boyfriend is lying about emotions and BDSM | 6/24/2009 | CougarDomme |
| Q: I've been dating a guy a little over and month now, and I'm not sure what to think at this point. ... A: You are not overreacting. People in this lifestyle are hardwired so if he's looking for this and ... | ||
| understanding a sub ????? | 6/24/2009 | Slavywavy |
| Q: me and my wife she bing the sub .have tryed swinging in the past .and i thought we had moved on but ... A: Hell there DOM Well, since you are the dominant person you set the rules and you know that this is ... | ||
| Bdsm resorts | 6/24/2009 | Oscar G. |
| Q: I am recently new to this. My partner and I have a long distance relationship.We are looking for ... A: Unknown to me if specifically there are BDSM resorts per se in Michigan And/Or Tennessee. However, ... | ||
| one-time domination | 6/22/2009 | Oscar G. |
| Q: I'm a sub married male, whose wife is not interested in it, and I'm getting together with a good ... A: Best option if to talk it out. Communicate. See what each like, and have in common. See the ... | ||
| Being emotional | 6/22/2009 | Slavywavy |
| Q: slavywavy- Hi i am coming back into the lifestyle after being with a very abusive Dom put me off of ... A: Are emotions normal directly after a scene? Oh yes hun, they are very normal and it is completely ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | CougarDomme |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: http://www.ne-ds.org/home.htm That's the website you need to go to and join that group. Go to some ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | CougarDomme |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: You need to join a local group so that he will know he's not the only one and you two aren't the ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Robert Rubel |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: Jennifer, Please pardon the delay in replying to you. I've been out of the country for a bit over ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Oscar G. |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: I would say that the distinction here for BOTH OF YOU would be to keep sex play as play and ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: Explain that this is an inner need of yours, and that to ignore it, and pretend it doesn't exist ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | DarkDivah |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: I STRONGLY suggest that you find a kink aware professional to help your husband deal with the issues ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | arani_CsA |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Slavywavy |
| Q: "I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline ... A: Darling Jennifer Thank you for shring your fetish and how things have gone for you and your ... | ||
| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | awhitecloud |
| Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ... A: Jennifer A lot of Dom's can not punish the ones they love. It is hard to be stern with them. It ... | ||
| my Sir is sending mixed messages | 6/21/2009 | Slavywavy |
| Q: Three years ago, i met a great man and W/we went out on a couple of dates. Things were so amazing ... A: Is this situation common in BDSM? No it isn't. When you want someone to dominate and control you, ... | ||
| curious | 6/21/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: I've seeing this guy and so far we have a good relationship. He's older than me and has done the ... A: It is many things to many people, and to try here to explain it all would take too much time, and ... | ||
| My husband and bdsm | 6/21/2009 | arani_CsA |
| Q: I can't get enough bdsm treatment from my husband. He's afraid of hurting me. But I want it so bad. ... A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ... | ||
| help cb 6000 | 6/21/2009 | awhitecloud |
| Q: Welcome Please help. I am Lukas 28 years old and I have come from Polish. A few days ago I bought ... A: okay, I went on line and have researched all I can find on this device. I did not find that any ... | ||
| try and buy | 6/20/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: .was wondering what the term try and buy means in this lifestyle. just got an e mail from a slave ... A: While I am not familiar with the term, it would seem to me to be an invitation to try out the slave ... | ||
| need some advise | 6/17/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: i just got a 3-Prong Anal Speculum to use on my slave to help stretch and keep her open other then ... A: Jello! Flavor is Your choice, but make sure the coloring in it doesn't give a migraine to the ... | ||
| The Come Down? | 6/17/2009 | Mistress Violette |
| Q: I got this email from a new submissive that I'm training...I would like to help her thru what I here ... A: Mr. Brown, The two of you need to talk. Your submissive needs some reassurance. It seems like this ... | ||
| The come down? | 6/17/2009 | CougarDomme |
| Q: I got this email from a new submissive that I'm training...I would like to help her thru what I here ... A: She's got the right mindset, you just need to give her some instruction on what you want her to do ... | ||
| Kuffs | 6/16/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: I was searching for the website Kuffs and castlerealm when I came across your Q&A on castlerealm so ... A: All I get when I go there is a Logo for Gefin. Your guess is as good as mine, friend, but W/we hope ... | ||
| newly sub | 6/15/2009 | Slavywavy |
| Q: I a sub, and I was just wondering how do i go about learning about the BDSM lifestyle. I am ... A: Welcome and happy journey to you. You can join online networking sites like alt.com, bondage.com, ... | ||
| qestion on and abought adult movies | 6/14/2009 | DarkDivah |
| Q: me and my wife/sub are looking for an adult movie we both have looked and looked at sights and we ... A: Sean there are no end of adult movie sites that cater to BDSM and Fetish Google search using BDSM ... | ||
| I'm back for more advice... | 6/12/2009 | arani_CsA |
| Q: Our time apart is so hard on me i truely beleive i'm addicted to him the love he gives me how he ... A: .. Again, I'm glad that my words were of help to you. I'm sure your Sir will be very pleased that ... | ||
| bdsm/feminization | 6/11/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend are curious as to why I enjoy and feel the need to dress as a woman even to the ... A: A light enema would clean you out, and prepare you for anal play with your Mistress. Use something ... | ||
| Vanilla with a Dom | 6/11/2009 | DarkDivah |
| Q: Please could you help me. I am in a relationship with a dom, we have been together for five years. I ... A: Sometimes when we're at the end of the tether all we can do is let go and start doing what needs to ... | ||
| I'm back for more advice... | 6/11/2009 | arani_CsA |
| Q: Our time apart is so hard on me i truely beleive i'm addicted to him the love he gives me how he ... A: .. Thank you for the follow-up question. I'm pleased that my earlier answer was of help to you, ... | ||
| movie help!!!! | 6/10/2009 | arani_CsA |
| Q: do you know if there is a sight that we can find a movie and or DVD of a female sub being trained by ... A: .. I can't really recommend ANY movie or DVD as serious instruction or education regarding the BDSM ... | ||
| Collaring and BDSM | 6/10/2009 | Master Shadow |
| Q: Ok well me and my love have been kind of dabbling in to the pet and master relationship and we want ... A: I would suggest HouseofCollars.com, which has a fine selection of 24/7 collars that are waterproof, ... | ||
| Learning about Gorean Lifestyle | 6/10/2009 | arani_CsA |
| Q: this has probably been asked before but I've been looking everywhere I cant find anywhere to give me ... A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ... | ||
| help !!!!! | 6/9/2009 | arani_CsA |
| Q: me and my wife/submissive are new to this..and i have ben reading all that i can get my hands on ... A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ... | ||
| Disobeying | 6/8/2009 | Robert Rubel |
| Q: Hey I was wondering about collaring... See I'm in a Master/slave relationship with my girlfriend ... A: Ooh, ooh, icky. Serious problem, Laurence. I'm sorry. OK, I'll apologize up front for writing so ... | ||
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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.
Experience
35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.
Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder).
Co Owner of House of Dragon.
Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".
Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.
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