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Expert: - 7/21/2007


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hi my name is Joe i am wanting to be in this relationship with a sub but i am not a dom or anything never been in the lifestyle but my heart tells me this is the woman i need totally in my life forever.

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Hello Joe,

thank you for the nice words your very kind and yes you may ask me all the questions that you may wish I will try my best to answer or to get you the answers if I do not have them.

awhitecloud

This can be a hard place to begin the walk of life.  It is nice to see you so committed to your relationship.  But do not jump in with both feet and get into far over your head.  Read all you can on the lifestyle and learn.  Check out your area for munch that you can attend and where you can talk with other Doms as well subs.  Is she into the lifestyle?

Here is a clink to a great place where you can begin to lean and never stop asking questions.  The more you ask the better grip you will get on the subject and the better understanding you will find that you have.

http://www.castlerealm.com/tours.shtml

I would read both sides of the site the submissive’s side as well the Dominates side. And feel free to ask me more questions I will do all I can to find the answers for you.

Here is a link that might help you some as well.

http://newagequest.com/DS/spiceitup.html


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awhitecloud

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Expertise

Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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