Expert: XR - 12/3/2007

Question
My husband is my submissive and I love to use nipple clamps as punishment. I use devices like Binder clamps used to clamp papers. pants hangers that have the sharp teeth, cloverleaf type clamps with rubber bands making them tighter. I use these for punishment purposes and in minutes he is begging and telling me how he is going to change and I love the begging and pleading. My question is, can i do damage to him physically with the clamps. thank you

Answer
Being that this is your husband's nipples in question, a bit more recklessness might be permissible, as he's not likely to need them for functional purposes. I would advise against using clamps for prolonged purposes, as you wouldn't want to restrict blood flow. However I think you should ultimately take the same care as with any other parts of his body. You want him to be able to recover from whatever punishment you dish out. I think most importantly, you should watch for signs that anything isn't healing as it should and be willing to go see a doctor in a heartbeat if something looks wrong. I don't think there are any set guidelines I can give you as to how much is too much, but if you go to far, please don't ignore it and hope it goes away.