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Every Weekend for the past three months (just about), I have been helping my girlfirend with heousehold chores. I don't mind sweeping and mopping, and she really seems to appreciate my help.
The problem is that I think she's up to something (probably fun!), but I can't figure out what. You see as time went on, she started doing less and less. After the first month, she had me doing nearly all of the chores.
Then during the second month, she started asking for help in the kitchen. We both wore aprons, but she tied mine extra tight. I never said anything about it, but that's when I started getting worried.
Towards the end of that month, she brought up my shoe size and a few other measurements. I asked her why she wanted to know, but she just said it was a surprise. The last few times she said that,I found myself in interesting bondage sessions that were lots of fun, but not as much fun as they could have been IF I had been prepared. So I was hoping that you could tell me what my girlfriend is up to and how to go about preparing for it.  

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Hi Robert:
I am assuming certain things,such as enjoying bondage as a sub, and you enjoying your situation. My advice is short and sweet:Enjoy your Lady,and her surprises. You may never get another like her.
Preparations?Ask  her...put cards on the table  politely. She may indeed be preparing you for more servitude(sensual).
Best of luck, enjoy it and communicate with her.
I hope it helps.
Oscar G.

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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

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15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying

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Engineering & Military

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