Expert: Oscar G. - 5/23/2006

Question
sorry to be blunt about this but i have a BDSM session with my boyfriend on saturday. could u give me scenerios for me and my boyfriends to do. i like using buttplugs on him and making him where girl pantins with my tampons and pads, could u give me some good scenerios please. and do u noe a way i could make him sit down to pee, like a hose or something because his pee sometimes splashes on the corner of the toilit.

Answer
Hi Mischella:

Blunt is Ok. <smile> Feminization can be fun if yo both enjoy it. But newer scenarios depend on more stuff you both would enjoy outside femenizing him. If you make him use buttplug, maybe eventually you could move to using a, vibrating plug or strap-on more advanced. You could tottally make him up and dress him in even girlier stuff, you being the girl, you should know what to make him wear, besides panties, try stockings and garters, teddies, sheer stuff, etc.

On other set of activities, you could try light bondage, and treat him more and more like a girl. But it is up to you if you are being tender or mean to him. You could try abducting/kidnapping.  Or you could try "force" play/mock "rape", but with sensual tones. It is up to you to figure out your tastes and limits.

On the pee aspect, there are leather or plastic Harnesses that keep the penis pointing down. Some are called "cages" where they avoid the penis getting erect and keep it pointing down and still allow for going pee. Usually you will find them in the web, in adult toys for boys. If you look around i know you will find  the perfect one for you and your partner.

I hope this helps a bit. Have fun in your exploration and be safe. Be well.

Oscar G.