Expert: Oscar G. - 9/3/2006

Question
hi , my name is dana.i find out lately sexual needs from my boyfriend that he is crazy about my feet smell and my shoes smell and even my pee and i know that he smell my shoes when iam not at home and he ask me one to test my pee, so here it is to be honest i wanna use this and not just give it to him like this i want to take  advantage of him , i know its on of his weakness and i want to humiliate him with it and make him my slave and submissive to me i dont know how to be dominant and iam sure he will love it ,, i dont mind to make him reach a point to be addicted to my feet and shoes smell and my pee which make me control him and make him do what ever i want iam sure he well be willing ,, pls tell me how and what should i do.  

Answer
Dear Dana:

At thsi point you need a whole book on the mind, technique and psychology or BDSM. If you search Amazon.com and put BDSM, domme, dominant, mistress, dominatrix in the search you will find a good book to suit you. There are several out there, but you will have to read more about it and find what your style is.  
What you ask is something that develops over time. Basically what you are asking me how to become A Cook, more than just a recipe or how to cook some specific thing. SO at thsi point I recomend readingand get cracking <<smile>>

Best regards.

OG