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hi , my name is dana.i find out lately sexual needs from my boyfriend that he is crazy about my feet smell and my shoes smell and even my pee and i know that he smell my shoes when iam not at home and he ask me one to test my pee, so here it is to be honest i wanna use this and not just give it to him like this i want to take  advantage of him , i know its on of his weakness and i want to humiliate him with it and make him my slave and submissive to me i dont know how to be dominant and iam sure he will love it ,, i dont mind to make him reach a point to be addicted to my feet and shoes smell and my pee which make me control him and make him do what ever i want iam sure he well be willing ,, pls tell me how and what should i do.  

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Tell him straight out that if he wants to do these things, that he will have to kneel, literally, at Your feet. Explain to him that You want him to submit to You, as Your slave. There are many sites which can give You ideas about Dominating him, including Castlerealm.com, GloriaBrame.com, Submissiveloving.com, and TheLovingDominant.com.

I wish Y/you both well in Y/your journey of exploration. Also, try placing a free profile on alt.com, a kinky alternative chatsite, where You can ask general questions of many on the site.

I hope this helps.

                                    SINcerely in Leather,
                                    Master Shadow.  

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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