Expert: Master Shadow - 12/12/2006

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thanks for your quick reply. we always use blindfolds and handcuffs whenever we spank each other. her favourite way to be spanked in on all fours while having a bath. what are some simple ways to do "water torture" with her. i'm not talking about extreme measure just little things, although i would be interested to know what is classed as "extreme". what other objects could i bend her over the punish her?
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hi,

i have been with my gf for a year now and have been spanking each other for about 4 months. we have tried the classic over the knee and bending over the bed positions but really need some new ones to keep it exciting for us. is it also safe to do anal sex with dildo's while over the knee? look forward to receiving as much info as possible. thanks.
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One way is to tie her wrists to her ankles, with legs either spread, or together on the bed. This leaves her not only unable to escape, but also makes her feel very vulnerable. Another(Use this one myself) is to put large eyebolts in the doorframe, for the hands and feet. This will keep her spread eagle, and leave her open for many possibilities. You can also try wetting her behind down before the spanking, or use something like ben gay or icy hot a few minutes before the spanking. This brings the blood to the surface of the skin, making it more sensitive. Fur mitts are also used for the same purpose.

I also fondle mine while spanking, and use a blindfold while paddling her. This turns the spanking into a more sensual thing. Clothespins on the breasts also change the feeling of the spanking, as it draws her attention to other parts of her body, allowing her to take more.

Try varying the timing of the spanking as well, so she never knows when the next blow will land. The blindfold helps with this. And you can make her beg for the spanking, instead of just doing it on a scheduled basis. All of the above will work for either of you.

Yes, you may use a dildo when doing otk spanking, but beware that it isn't too long, as you may irritate the transverse colon if it is(Colon makes a right angle turn about 6 to 10 inches past the rectum). Like any anal play, go slowly when first starting out, to allow the sphincter to relax slowly, which avoids tearing or fissures. Anal play during spanking can be very sensual. Sometimes, fondling during insertion can ease the way, relaxing the sphincter. Use a good quality water based lube, like Wet, Wet lite, or Wet warming lube. Also do not use things like vegetable oil, as bacteria can grow in it after a few hours, causing an infection.

Hope this helps. Be well, play safe, and have fun!

         SINcerely in Leather,
         Master Shadow.

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I did answer this once before, but apearently, it was never sent. There are many things which can be used to "bend her over" from the back of a couch to a wooden dowel fastened to eyebolts in a doorway. Just be sure to use large enough eyebolts, and dowels to support her safely.
As to extremes, it depends. What might seem extreme to you could be just fun and games for me, as I am a sadist by nature. Water tortures are all extreme.
There is a safe one, though, but it isn't exactly water torture. It involves making her hold water until she has to pee so bad she can't stand it. Then requiring her to pee in her pants, with some kind of container to catch it, unless it is done in the bathtub/shower.
I know it doesn't sound like much, but, believe me, potty training is very hard to overcome! I have played this game before, and many can't do it voluntarily, but must literally wait until they can't hold it anymore.
It also works if there is humiliation play as well, using the "Awwww, did you wet yourself, little girl" routine. Any other water torture I know of is extreme, like dunking, and holding her there. These can cause heart attacks, or mental trauma, and are best left to Those deeper into the Lifestyle, with advanced Lifesaving training, in my opinion.
I hope this helps, and apologise for the lateness of this answer. As I stated before, I thought this had already been posted.
Be well, play safe, and have fun!


         SINcerely in Leather,
         Master Shadow.