Expert: Oscar G. - 11/10/2005

Question
I am a 45 yr old female that has always wanted to be put over someones knee and spanked or whipped with a belt really hard.I want it to hurt enough to be uncomfortable to sit. I would be embarrassed to suggest it to a date, so do you have any ideas? I want it to come from someone who is not Mr. Nice guy, but rather dsomeone who can intimidate me and make me worry about how severely I am to be punished. I think the anticipation would be part of the facination. And if I find someone. and they ask me why I need to be punished, I would'nt know what to tell them. For example; if it was for illegal drug use, I would'nt want them to think I was a bad kind of person

Answer
Dear Susan:

Finding men is easy for women, but then again finding good men is harder. Yet even more so to find good men that will give you a nice spankie.

I would suggest to tell them right out, but if you like to be less direct, show off to him in private. Raise your derriere to him, lift skirt, and mockingly gram his hand to spank your butt. If he is smart and a nice sport, he may get the idea. But you really want it over the knee, if you are playful aready put yourself intohis lap and raise your assets <smile>
The  reason to tell them?  It is FUN... simple as that. You like the sensations. And it feels good to you. But perhaps you like to feel like someone takes charge of you and puts you in your place. But Just be honest about feelings and reasons. But tell them if asked.

I hope it helps.

Oscar G