Expert: Master Shadow - 5/16/2007

Question
QUESTION: What is "subdrop"?
I understand subspace, but what is the BEST and safest aftercare for a Dominant to give to bring their submissive in subspace, out of subspace please ? in detail
ANSWER:  When scened, the endorphin levels are raised slowly with the application of pain. Subdrop is when the subs endorphin levels drop below normal before returning to normal levels, leaving the sub feeling depressed, lost and sad.

Chocolate will help with this somewhat, as it causes the body to release some endorphin. Sleep also helps, and the sub may want to nap for a while to relieve some of the feelings of depression. Drinking plenty of water, staying warm, and having their Dominant there with them will help a lot in this situation. Sometimes, a warm shower will also help the sub to feel better. Also be sure to apply salve, such as aloe vera gel to their marks, and watch any open wounds to be sure infection does not set in.

With deep bruises, there is always the possibility of cellulitis, or septicemia setting in, so thay will have to be watched, and appropriate messures taken to correct this before it becomes a problem that the doctors will need to take care of.

Don't be surprised if the sub seems clingy during this time. it is only their way of seeking comfort and security in the arms of their Dominant, and will usually pass within a day or two.

The only thing You, as a Dom can do is to be there for Your sub when they hit subspace, a high caused by the raised endorphin levels. During subspace, the sub may actually be unconscious for a bit, or at least somewhat incoherant, and unable to think properly, or even walk without falling. This is a dangerous time for the sub to be alone, as their ability to think or act rationally may be impared. This will slowly dissipate over a short time, but when in this state, they must be taken care of, and protected, as they haven't the ability to do this for themselves.

Subspace can last for several hours, to several days in various levels, but in most cases, the sub will be able to take care of themselves within 30 minutes to an hour. Be sure to offer them water, or a light snack, or both when they seem able to maneuver on their own right after a scene. Oft times, scening will make the sub hungry and thirsty, as a lot of energy is expended. I hope this helps.


         SINcerely in Leather,
         Master Shadow.



---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------

QUESTION: Indeed, My thanks to You Master Shadow, may I also assume that when in this trance like state, talking caringly to My submissive and asking very simple questions requiring basic yes and no answers, would this also be advised ? to bring them out of subspace? because I know that this can be an area that the sub may not want to come out of ! it is that "heavenly" for some.

Answer
Yes, You have the gist of it. The sub becomes almost child like when in this state, and the best questions to that sub would indeed be the simple yes and no type, as more intricate questions may not be understood.

When in this state, the sub may giggle, laugh, speak things not clearly understood due to theis inability to formulate sentances requiring of a more complex nature. Very astute of You:)

It is indeed a state of bliss, one that cannot be adequately expressed with mere words, but is better understood by actually experiencing it.

Thank You for Your response. It was very kind of You.



         SINcerely in Leather,
         Master Shadow.