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Expert: - 12/16/2007


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I am wanting to know how to learn how to take this from a bedroom thing to a level above all and not just feeling it but being a dom

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you might want to read a book called "The Loving Dominate" you can get it on line as well at any major book store.  Look on line at good sites they will help and guide you, even look for a mentor in your area to help you with moving toward everyday.  I am a sub so I am not not totally sure, I know there are a lot of place with good information to help Doms.  There are a lot of life style books that will help you over all, this one is just one of the best that I have found to help people.

thank you I wish you well and that I have been able to help you in some way.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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