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How does a female Dom, test a male slave as an introduction of their worthiness?

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Exactly! Whatever task You put him to do, then that is what he is to do to prove his worthiness to be Yours. If You choose a scavenger hunt, then that is his task, including doing it within the amount of time You give him to do such. Again, good luck with Your new slave!

                                          Master Shadow.



A Domme (Female Dom) tests Her slave in whichever way She chooses to test him, be it through the completion of a chore to having him do something that he has never done before. There is no "True" way to do this.

Possibly having a tattoo placed upon his hip, to signify Your ownership would suffice. Or even branding him, if that is what You're into. I know there are many country stores, such as BootCity which sells small branding irons used when cooking steaks. They come in every letter of the alphabet, and are about an inch tall. Be sure to read up on branding slaves before attempting this though, as doing it incorrectly can lead to permanent scarring, and infection, hence the mention of tattoos instead.

Realize, that as a Domme You are the one in charge, and also the one who knows something about Your slave. For me to attempt to give a direct answer to this question without knowing the slave would be hard at best. Use what You know of him, and his personality. Only You know what makes him tick, and which areas he has trouble with.

I once read a book wherein the Master took Their slave, bound and gagged them, and whipped them until the slave gave indications that they could take no more. When unbound, the slave crawled to the Master's feet, and submitted, caressing His ankles.

I have used this technique before with good results. It teaches the slave many things, from knowing that You use discipline in Your house, to knowing deep within that they are owned. Of coarse, the thing to remember is safety first in all things. You want to enforce Your will on the slave, not injure him or cause him to be hospitalized.

I would also go to CastleRealm.com, or IronGate.com for more information before You decide. It is better to have too much info on this subject that not enough. Best of luck to You, and Your slave!


                                           Master Shadow.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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