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QUESTION:   hi..was wondering what sites You would recommend to find a female sex/domestic slave. collar me is a waste of time. do You happen to know of any that are good but also free?  seems most of them just want to suck up your money?

ANSWER: Personally, I would recommend Alt.com, a free alternative Lifestyle Chat site. There You can place a profile explaining a little about Yourself, and state exactly what You are looking for in a slave or sub.

They also have an upgrade where You can pay $39.99 for three months, but I have found that the free aspect of the site to be perfectly satisfactory for what You desire.

I met my wife, Mistress Mollie on that very site, and We hit it off right away. After several months talking on chat, We moved to Yahoo messenger, and set up a weekend meeting. I came to visit Her for the weekend, and never left, having fallen in love with Her.

We were married on Nov 17th of last year, and are now living happily in the Lifestyle. Do not give up hope if You don't find what You are looking for right away. It took me the better part of two years to find someone I was compatable with.

Remember, there is more to theis than just finding someone, Y/you must also be compatable with each O/other as well.
I hope this helps.

         SINcerely in Leather,
         Master Shadow.

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QUESTION:   hi again; I am a bit confused; alt.com is a pay site; how do You get the free chat for it?  thank You again!!

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Alt also has a free area where You can chat for free. Viewing profiles, and seeing bigger pictures are where the cost comes in. This can be circumvented by answering questions, writing articles, and giving advice to others on alt in the advice, and articles sections.

You can also get up to 2000 points by verifying your identity to alt. It involves sending a copy of your license, or state id to alt.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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