Expert: Mrs. Priscilla Lyons - 9/13/2010

Question
We had a deacon to pass away last year in our church.  His widow just got remarried.  My question is should she still be sitting in the deaconess corner.  We are Southern Baptist and I am new to the church.

Answer
Thanks for writing, Carla.  I'm not much of an expert on church ceremony if it's not specifically mentioned in the Bible.  If it's a matter that affects the church's representation of Christ to the world, even if it's not specifically mentioned in the Bible, I would have a strong opinion.
   If, by sitting in the deaconess corner, she is still willing to help serve the church along with the other deacons' wives, then I wouldn't bring it up unless she asks.  I think a willingness to reflect Jesus in whatever opportunity arises, is more helpful to a church than a formal title.
   However, if she married an unbeliever, the Bible specifically forbids that, so she should not be allowed to represent the church in any way, unless she openly repents.
   I hope this helps some.
   Priscilla