Baptists/Fornication (continued)


Did something happen to you, that has made you bitter towards God?  Want to tell me about it?  Sometimes just talking about it, can help you get it off your chest.

Yes when I was 7 years old I was raped.

My dad left at age 5 and had affairs

The church I went to a a kid was mean

My "christian" ex-boyfriend left me married a mail order bride from Thailand. They married on my birthday. Had twins on Easter because someone slipped up and told me

My family is dysfunctional. I could go on...I don't want to live.

please send private emails:  

The only way I can respond to you in private, is if you send the question as Private.  There is a box that you can check for that, before you send it.  I have no control over it.  Or, you can email me at

Please do not harm yourself.  Everything you listed here, was a result of someone NOT obeying the Bible....not because of it.  God loves you, and wants to give you a reason for living.  

Please stay in touch.  It will be tomorrow evening before I can respond, but know that I'm praying for you.


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I can answer questions pertaining to Baptist and Bible doctrine. I have been an ordained Baptist minister for 19 years, and pastored a Baptist Church for over 5 years. I have also preached revival meetings in Baptist Churches for years. I am happy to answer questions about how Baptist/Bible doctrine compares with false cults going under the guise of Christianity, and how those differences are significant and sometimes dangerous. I do not wish to discuss doctrines within Christianity, that are controversial, as there are many genuinely saved people who allow some of the minor things to divide them.


I have answered Bible questions on the Jehovah's Witness forum for just over 14 years now, and attempted to help many people see the differences between that belief system, and Biblical Christianity. As I was raised in that religion, I can say that many of them have a sincere desire to please God, but they have been misled by false doctrines. If you have any questions regarding the beliefs of JWs, and how those beliefs deviate from the Scriptures, I can help you with that, as well. Please use my profile on that forum, for questions of that nature. But more importantly than simply discussing various doctrines, I have a desire to see people become born again into the family of God, by placing complete faith and trust in the shed blood of Jesus Christ, which alone is the atonement for our sins.

Independent Baptist church in western North Carolina, near the Blue Ridge Mountains.

High school, and 3 years of Bible College. Hundreds of hours of study in God's Word, the Bible.

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