Expert: Dean Gade - 1/26/2009

Question
How can I tell the guy that we shouldn't talk anymore?

He is really nice too.

And I told him that I don't want to be in a relationship with him and he said "okay" and I said we could just be friends and he agreed,do you think that I should keep trying to convince or do you think he understands?

What should I do now?

Well he said he wanted to meet me.He's 50 and he lievs int he U.K,he's an expert on Allexperts.I even have his picture and a picture of him nude too.I didn't give him a pictur eof me and I told him that I lived in he U.S,I didn't tell him the state or city or anything.But I don't want him to think that I want a relationship with him and I don't want him thinking that we are in one together and I need to get that straight,I want to get married and I don't want my future husband to think that I am in a relationship with someone else.How do I tell this man that I don't want a relationship with him and how do I convince him?

He said he understood but does this mean that I am in a relationship with him now?
But what if he thinks that we are ina relationship,than doesn't that mean that I can't get married?




I know this is a pretty overt question and if you don't want to answer this one,it's okay but if I was to finger myself and break the hymen then I am no longer a virgin?

Answer
You are not only in some spiritual danger but also putting yourself in physical danger if you continue your relationship with this man IN ANY WAY.

From what you wrote of him, he is a person that you should no longer write to or answer when he writes to you.  If he persists, contact the officials of AllExperts Answers.