Bible Studies/adultery

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Two years ago, my husband was having an emotional affair with another woman, later he told me he has had numerous affairs during our 35 years of marriage.  How can I continue in our marriage when he doesn't seem truly remorseful? He is a Christian, attends church, but cannot give up his single friends who do drugs and alcohol. He still blames me for his affairs.  I am stedfast in our Lord and Saviour, praying continuously, I know it is in God's time and I must remain faithful and trust that God knows best.  It is so very hard sometimes, I am afraid my husband will cheat again. Thank you so very much.

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It grieves me that your husband refuses to repent of his sin but stays in it.  However, it gives me joy that you see how to respond and have remained steadfast.  If he is a Christian, will your husband consider counsel from your pastor or another Christian?  Have you considered seeking counsel together?  Please stay steadfast in your role, remembering the promise of 1 Peter 3.  I'll be praying.

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Using the Bible as my primary source and references in support of it, I am willing to answer questions on subjects from the Old and New Testaments. My faith is based on biblical Christianity and fundamental views from the Bible. I cannot answer questions about specific sects or religious organizations nor can I address religions outside biblical Christianity. As a Christian for nearly 40 years, I have studied many aspects of the Christian faith. My particular interests are in creation and the natural processes of the world around us and how they fit with the biblical record. I believe that all Scripture is inspired by God. I believe that there are no contradictions in the Bible and that the Bible is complete in telling us as individuals how we should relate to God, Christ, and the Holy Spirit; our purpose on earth; and how we should live. Greek lauguage study has helped me gain additional insight into the New Testament but most of my reference work is done in English and, to a lesser degree, German.

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Personal Bible study over the years, lessons delivered in Sunday School settings and messages during organized services, and leading Bible study series have prepared me to be comfortable addressing questions from others.

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Formal study includes Greek language. I am a layman without a theological degree. Training has come from sitting under the ministry of excellent Bible teachers for my entire adult life, personal study, and selected courses. Secular educaitonal background includes an undergraduate engineering degree, graduate work in engineerign and business, and advanced courses in business and theology.

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